when is the best time to call (21)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 03:13 ID:4RjFy0CW

Ok, After getting the phone number from a girl. When is it the best time to call the girl? right away or wait a bit?

Thanks

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 03:26 ID:KdO+RfXI

Call her parents. Ask them

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 03:35 ID:4cng1HNy

you know the answer to this

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 04:34 ID:rZnrEBSO

2-3 days.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 04:39 ID:mB3dpytC

Depends on the girl.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 05:53 ID:A72VVS9J

>>5
Agreed. If the girl is more laidback, then you should wait longer. She'll think that you're overly eager. But if she's a shy, insecure type, then I would call sooner. If you wait too long and she's interested in you a lot, then she'd probably die of a heart attack if you wait too long.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 06:21 ID:WXVUTpCy

> If you wait too long and she's interested in you a lot, then she'd probably die of a heart attack if you wait too long.

Haha, that's just too cute.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 06:39 ID:BjnLfjY7

lol wow. this IS CUTE...

well, i've always thought the norm around the rules has always been "3 days".

because calling on the same day/night makes you look desperate.

calling a few days later is good. waiting after the 3 days kind of kills it. unless the girl is interested in you too.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 14:07 ID:ciKAyV1k

I call whenever I feel like it - why have rules for this sort of thing?

If someone thinks I'm overeager, well, fuck them - they're apparently not into me anyway. If the spark is gone after some time, then it probably wasn't strong enough in the beginning anyhow.

So call whenever you feel like it. If your date likes you, there's no such thing as wrong timing, and if your date doesn't like you, it's better to get rid of them sooner rather than later.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 14:47 ID:Heaven

>>9
Actually, 50% of the dating "game" is about timing.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 20:57 ID:u0zPgBA5

i personally call the next day if i'm well rested and suspect she is too. this ones hard to call though. so best bet is 2 days

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 23:36 ID:Heaven

I never call them.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 23:39 ID:Heaven

i come on there face and nevre see them again

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-25 03:17 ID:pihxLCSe

>>13, get out of here you idiot.

OP, I say the best bet is two days. Three days just seems too long.... any longer, you might have forgotten why she gave you her number and the spark would have faded.

But I think the next day is perfectly fine. Any women on the board to share their thoughts on this?

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-25 03:54 ID:xJoVcVjw

Girl, here.

If I'd given my number, I'd personally want the call the next day because I'm the heart attack type described in >>6. XD

But, as a general thing, I'd agree with two days. Not too short, but not too long either.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-25 04:02 ID:4RjFy0CW

awesome, OP here. Well, I ended up waiting for 3 days and by that time she lost interest.. I'll try again on another date and I'll try the next day thing that >>15 suggested.

Thanks

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-25 09:59 ID:ZYTcDnqY

If it was her mobile phone, I'd call her as soon as I got out of her sight. Once she answers, I'd say: "Oh hi it's me. Just checking". Then I'd lol and hang up.

>>Well, I ended up waiting for 3 days and by that time she lost interest..

She has ADHD

18 Name: TWO DAY MINIMUM : 2008-07-25 18:43 ID:TXhlMHFN

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-31 04:59 ID:Q7rF9xWi

girl here
i'd say wait no longer than 1-2 days to call. good luck

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-02 00:23 ID:Heaven

>>17
thats a good idea.

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-07 03:43 ID:L8skwmrx

And don't phone her in the morning. i'd hated it if i got phone call in the morning

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