Hey guys. Just came back a few hours fresh from a first date, and I have some doubts that only the internets can assuage. While we clicked pretty well on a mental level and the date went smoothly, I can already get the sense that he likes me far more than I do him.

See, I've always had a problem with saying no, and before I knew it he was giving me bedroom eyes after some five minutes of on-and-off PDA. I'll be honest-- I'd never done this shit before, and I couldn't think of a harmless, gracious way to back out without spoiling the nice non-awkward mood. Playing along after that came more naturally, and you have to know that I'm not trying to villify him-- this was my fault for leading him on.

The second thing is more problematic-- physically, I'm not attracted to him in the least.

My options:

1. Find some way of breaking it off asap without looking inconsistent, being mean.
2. Let it go on for another month, after which I will move away. This thing has an expiry date, and he knows it.
3. Um.

Your thoughts? I'm prepared for a moral lecture.

So you had sex with him?