We live in different states, and I thought she was 16... SHe looked 16... But i her friend just told me shes thirteen... And even though shes 3 years younger than me, I still love her and I don't want to hurt her... SHould I end it or just pretend I never found out... HELP!
Damn! You just make me jealous of you!
Yeah that helps me...
Did she tell you that she was 16 in the first place?
If she did, I think you should confront her about her dishonesty.
i think i hear sirens, don't you?
not worth it.
i was in the same spot as you, dont go there.
I didn't ask her how old she was, everyone just said she was sixteen. I never heard her say it... But now I'm confused. Her friend that told me she was 13, and another of her friends said she was 14... I asked my girlfriend and she said she was 16.. I'm so confused (-_-')
When I was 13 and looked 13 I dated a 17 yr old who looked 27...
End it. Be fair to her
Sooooo, where exactly is the problem? 3 years is not even a big gap.
Or...just wait until she matures then! If you are loyal enough...at least more things can happen between you two...(and yeah...many things..even bad things...take note on that!).
Good luck then!
I plan on staying with her. I know 3 years isn't a big gap... The bad thing will be when I'm 18 and shes 15. If 'anything' was to happen, I could easily get my ass thrown in prison, since shes under age...
She's still young and developing. In the next few years she'll mature both physically and mentally, her morales and values will (hopefully) grow stronger, and her perspective on relationships and commitments should also mature.
I don't think you should try to do anything to her. Especially with how young she is, you may be effective enough to throw off the maturity she needs to learn. If you allow her to grow healthily, and she still stays commited to you as you two grow older, she will definitely be worth the wait.
Because you're only ever going to find one girl. Ever. In fact, I hear speculators are driving up the price of girls as we speak. Clearly the government must intervene.
Dude, STFU and find yourself a new girl.
hahaha
that happened to a friend of mine
we made sure that he knew that legally it was pedophilia
he will never hear the end of it now
haha
oh...please guys don't annoy OP, instead give him some advice, good ones rather than flaming him all the way on....
she says she's sixteen believe her and carry on dating.
and even if she is a few years younger than you, you can still date her as long as you don't tap her.
>>OP
Actually, if she says she is legal and you do her, they can't do you for pedophilia - because as far as you knew she was legal.
I am pretty sure there are multiple precedents - and it is very unusual to find 13 year olds who look like they could be 16, so I'd just feel safe and not worry about, and maybe hire a good lawyer.
>>19
Good point... I didn't even think of that. Thanks
If you know about it, and if it can be proved, then it's even worse telling you didn't know. You know, good faith and such things.
>>19 The problem being is that he knows about it, and whoever told him knows he knows about it, there is no legal defence for him. Let alone how he could live with himself, its beyond me, really.
>>19 Actually, if she's a teenager and looks like one, it's ephebophelia, not pedophelia. Pedophelia is being sexually aroused by children, ephebophelia is being sexually aroused by teenagers. The crucial physical difference being boobies and pubic hair. Not that the law bothers to make the distinction...And, frankly, cup size=/=maturity, either >.<
Same thing happened to me, I broke it off when I found out.
OP here... Well i just found out my gf is 16. Her friend that told me, was trying to split us up... And it almost worked, but in the end she failed. Were still together and its gonna stay that way. Thanks to everyone who actually gave me advice... useful advice...
>>25
How did you find that? Did you ask her ID?
Her friend told me, after we both talked to her about it.
>>27
'...we both talked to her about it.'
So her friend told you, and both of you talked to your girlfriend regarding the age? And she still insists that she's 16?
It's a serious case of dishonesty or outright mental problem... Either way it's not good.
>>27
Ask her for her ID. It's the only way to be sure. "Being told" given the somewhat grave circumstances is not enough. Try to be responsible for once, eh?
If you are that mad about her not being within the age of concent, then just hold your boner in.
3 years is shit. I know people who are dating each other but are 10 years apart.
yea its not a problem. if shes the same person you thought she was whats wrong?
age is just a number. im 19 and i have women who are 24-35 hitting on me.
>im 19 and i have women who are 24-35 hitting on me.
They get desperate as they get older.