Relationship with too much emphasis on sex (14)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2008-09-06 18:41 ID:ExJLO/yh

I have been dating a guy for 3.5 months and we have been very sexual. The sex is quite good, however I feel that while the sexual part of our relationship is doing quite well the other aspects such as emotional and mental connection are not being developed. I am thinking of telling him we should either break up or start over, where we develop the other aspects before getting sexual. Is starting over possible? What do you think oh bloggers of 4ch?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-06 19:38 ID:Heaven

>bloggers of 4ch

oh dear god please

3 Name: Anonymous : 2008-09-06 19:55 ID:ExJLO/yh

OP here, thanks for the imput that has nothing to do with the issue, Secret Admirer. Now is there anyone out there with some actual advice?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-06 20:19 ID:Heaven

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5 Name: Anonymous : 2008-09-06 21:21 ID:ExJLO/yh

Ahhhh, I think this is the first time I am meeting a troll post to post. I wonder why you waste you time trying to piss people off. I would assume that you would have a big enough brain to actually stick to the subject and write a critique on it, post an opinion, laugh at the situation. But all you can manage is to try to poke at my misuse of the word "blogger." If you're going to be a troll try to be a better troll.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-06 22:35 ID:Heaven

Hi I'm >>4, but not >>2 as you believe. You made a terrible thread. Here is a simple hint to creating threads here:

Good thread: http://4-ch.net/love/kareha.pl/1216659598/l50
Bad thread: >>1

7 Name: 43 : 2008-09-06 23:50 ID:5n0ftQrZ

Hello >>1

regardless of your horrible thread making skills i'll answer your post.

If what you say is true then I'am afraid this bloke might not be attached enough to give it a second try. But this certainly depends on a number of factors. How old are you? how old is him?

8 Name: Anonymous : 2008-09-07 01:53 ID:ExJLO/yh

yeup, I think you may be right and it may be best to call the relationship off.

9 Name: 43 : 2008-09-07 03:37 ID:5n0ftQrZ

>>8

Talk to him, you wont lose anything from trying.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-07 11:43 ID:Heaven

>This thread is horrible

I used to think, if I died in an evil place my soul might not be able to make it to heaven.

Now?

Fffffffffffuck.

11 Name: Anonymous : 2008-09-15 14:17 ID:ExJLO/yh

Okay for better information. I'm 27, he's 30. Everything started off well and after about two weeks we started having sex. I think what went wrong is he's a non practicing Catholic who couldn't get past the "OMG we're actually having sex!" While I enjoy the sex I've certainly gotten past that and I would like for the relationship to progress. So mistakes were made, but it is actually going nowhere. So I've already sent him a text message saying that we should talk tonight and just break up. I've tried talking to him, but I don't really think the situation is salvageable.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-15 16:51 ID:MwItJmiN

I hope that goes well for you. I'm not going to judge because I don't know you and I don't know him and my opinion is far from "expert," but it sounds like you're doing the right thing. You could give him the option of starting over, but if it's rejected, just get out of the relationship. If it's not emotionally and spiritually fulfilling and that's what you want out of it, it's worthless. Good luck.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-09-25 11:54 ID:PuAsQzIa

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14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-09-25 12:02 ID:PuAsQzIa

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