ok going out with this girl for about 6 months, she dumps me but says its only cause shes scared were getting serious (her first long relationship)

6 months pass and i'm going out with someone else. still mad about the my first girl though. i confess all this to my best friend and hes the only person i trust to talk about this.

he then dedcides to go out with my first girl. doesn't talk to me about it. it kills me and pushes me and my best friend apart and he knows it, im sure he must have. i try and be cool about it, help him if things are going bad withthem, give him advice, do what i can to keep them happy.

after about 6 months i've split up with my gf, and my ex best friend and my first girl are having some problems and she says shes definitely gonna dump him.

we get together just before they do split up...

best friend now doesn't talk to me (he knows, and they have split up apparently), doesn't think he did anything wrong going out with her in the first place and that i'm the devil... maybe he's right. am i a cunt? i feel like shit and the whole thing is so complicated now. i don't know how she feels about me (says she wants us to be together once hes has had some time to get over her, they are still hanging out and quite close as friends, am having trouble trusting her)

feel like i've given up alot for little return right now. made a stupid decision.

opinions?

You're single, but invading another's territory makes you somewhat of a cunt.

We're only human, though.

If anything, you're both jerks.