so, this is a looooooooong story.
a few months ago, i started hanging out with this girl. lets call her Jill. before summer, her boyfriend Bill dumped her for another girl. so, Jill is completely broke up by this. she is in a sort of depression for a month. after she kinda gets over it, i ask her if she wants to go out and chill at the mall. we go, we chill, we get close and i start to like her. we start going out and hanging out more. then, BOOM. one day she tells me she got back with her ex.
-fast forward a few months-
school is about to start, and i have a new gf. I basically forget about Jill. I see her and Bill in the hall every once and a while together, but Bill HATES me, like literally HATES me now because i hung out with Jill over the summer. Bill and I used to pretty good friends, but not anymore because he's being a dick.
-fast foward another month-
my birthday comes up, and it's 1 month for me and my new gf. i decide to have a big b-day party and i invite a lot of my friends including Jill. We've talked a few times through the year but have had to hide our talking from Bill because he hates me so much. SO, Jill shows up early to hango ut a bit more. we play some rockband, we get really close and end up cuddling on the couch watching a movie. my gf calls and tells me that her power is out so she'll be a bit late. after a few hours, me and Jill are still pretty close physically through the party, then my gf shows up. lets call her Sami.
AS soon as Sami shows up i can see Jill's body language completely change. I can tell she doesnt approve of Sami and that she is kinda jelous. Sami was being VERY possesive of me through the whole party. whenever i would be talking to Jill she'd be like "excuse me, you have a gf" but not only would she be this way when i talk to Jill, but ANY other girls at the party.
So, party is ending and everyone goes home. I begin to realize i have some feeling for Jill again, and i'm really annoied with Sami. I end up breaking up wtih Sami a few days later and then i confessed how i felt to Jill. Jill told me that she likes me too. We end up going out to see Eagle Eye. she starts brushing against me, asking me to put my arm around her so i do. she puts her head on my shoulder and i put my head on hers and we cuddle/jump/recuddle through the whole movie. this was a few days ago...
NOW, her bf is coming back from a vacation since we had a 4 day weekend. we were supposed to hang out today, but i'm thinking she blew me off to go out with her bf...
I just dont get it. Bill is such a jerk to her. She's always telling me how they're fighting, arguing, and all that and it usually ends up with her crying. he didnt call her once through the entire vacation. I on the other hand; am nice to her, dont yell, actually confessed how i felt to her, and did everything a good boyfriend would do. why would she choose that dick-wad over me?
And now that Homecoming is coming up soon, i'm gonna be dateless since i broke up with Sami. should I ask Jill to break up with Bill? or should i wait things out?
help please ; ;
You are fucking retarded.
One bird in the hand is better than two birds in the bush. You were supposed to be done with Jill all those months ago, and you instead continued to chase after her EVEN AFTER GETTING A NEW GF. You messed up your relationship going after somebody that already has a boyfriend. You aren't a prospect, you're a shoulder to cry on. An idiot slave.
Kick her out of your life and move on. She shouldn't drag you down with her own problems.
Sixthed, but is it even necessary?
>>7
Yes, it is necessary. Oh, and seventhed.
>>8
What he said. Eighthed.
And what kind of names are Jill and Bill in the 21st century?
combo breaker
i started liking one of my collegue and want to have her as a girlfriend but she consider me as a good friend. she tells me i am a sweet friend of her. once i expressed my feelings to ger she told me that i should not expect anything more than friend. we had dirty talks before. i really like her. i hope she had a boyfriend also and she says he have many girlfriends still she is not ready for me to become my girlfriend.
>>12: look for someone else to be your girlfriend
I wouldn't mind having OP as a bf, too bad I'm not called JILL.. :(