I've recently asked a girl out on a date, and this is my first "real" date. I've been in a relationship before, but it was kind of screwed up and not at all what I'd like this relationship to be like.

My biggest question is just how physical I should get with her on a first date? I only really have experience with what's appropriate when you're already a couple, not what its' like at first.

Your thread is so fucking general its ridiculous. Look.. is this new girl a whore or not? Because if she isnt she probably dosent want to fuck on the first date.

The reason I'm being general is that I don't actually know. She doesn't seem like a whore, but I didn't get to speak to her for very long anyway. She seems like a fairly shy kind of girl, if that helps.

This depends a lot on you and the girl,... So obviously on your first date you should concentrate on getting to know the girl. I think a safe bet on the first date is to end it with a hug. If she shows obvious signs of wanting more, you may consider it, but it's not very likely, specially if you describe her as shy.

If she is really very shy, then really do the hug at the end of the date, so that she starts to get used to physical contact.

Use "kino" on her as we PUAs call it. Google it.

No amount of physicality is too much physicality!