Do you think once you've broken up with someone, it's possible to make the relationship work again?
I always hear that second chances are useless because the people end up doing the same things that broke the couple up in the first place.
I'd like to here some stories if possible, since I'm in a situation like this myself...
Depends on why you broke up. If you were fighting, it's hopeless to get back together. If, say you both moved to opposite parts of the country, it is still possible to get back together.
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I've broken up with the same person near 10 times, and we are still deeply in love. But we're both fucked up eccentrics. We fixed the problems completely. Oh, hell, it only took 10 times. It was useless to try and sever our actual love, though.
I doubt relationships work after the first break-up for people who aren't both extremely intelligent and extremely insane.
All long term relationships are punctuated by crisis,... Hopefully each of these crisis should be solved without too much drama, but tht's beyond some people