I like a Teacher! What to do?? (7)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-28 22:38 ID:xBU38RTr

Before I start I have to say I'm 19 and I recently enrolled in a school of commerce for one year before entering university (I'm european so don't be confused at this system).

There I saw a realy interesting guy, but he turned out to be one of the younger teachers at the school (he's in his mid to end twentees.. or at least looks like it).

I still think he's cute and whenever I'm in school I'm looking out for him, just to see his face and when I do I'm kinda happy. Yeah, I know, that are signs of having a mild crush. I'm feeling so childish just thinking that...

Now, I dunno if I'll ever try, but would you in this situation try to approach that teacher?? If so, how??

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-28 22:47 ID:UChiCzGH

Well he could lose tenure if word of his relationship with a student gets out to the administration. If he values his job, I doubt he would be responsive to your efforts, especially if he's only in his mid-twenties. Getting fired at that age over such a thing could be a career-ender.

I'm a moralfag, so my question to you is this: Would it be worth it for both of you to take such a risk?

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-28 23:38 ID:LsA/AIXe

>>1
You can get to know him, but I think you should only make more serious moves once you are out of that school,...

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-29 09:20 ID:bJHmX7j1

You can get along well and you can get his contacts and start actually hunting him after you have graduated the school. So none of you would get in trouble.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-29 22:15 ID:UNVquojm

OP here,

yeah I thought not asking until I'm finished with this school too (since it ends in may already).

If it was some fellow student I would just have walked up to him or found some other tactics to make my move, but I find it so difficult to just randomly talk to that teacher after some months when I finished school and say:"...uh.. so I didn't have you in any subject but I saw you on the school grounds (maybe you've noticed me too?), care to go out with me?"

adives? ideas?

I seriously feel unsure about this although I'd really want to get to know him.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-29 22:16 ID:UNVquojm

wha! sorry, I meant advices, totally overread that.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-30 12:13 ID:i+2Tx4sI

>>5
There are plenty of reasons to go back to school and meet the guy. If you know of his interests, you could use that (expo, books, whatever). It's not different from anyone else,...

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