Guy needs help to confess to a girl (7)

1 Name: sigh : 2008-11-23 22:24 ID:vt8zdsWZ

I have a girl that I go to school with. I known her for around 8 months. In that time, she's been with a couple of BFs but she usually break up with them. She's currently available and now I been thinking about confessing to her, but I don't know if she evens like me.
Her friends says she likes me, but I'm not sure if they're joking or not.
I don't know if she even knows that I like her. I never say that I like her or anything. I just keep quiet on that.
I really like this girl. I think about her a lot sometimes. She's just cute, clever, funny, humble...
I need help.
Should I confess to her, like... today? I'm in school at the moment. I been thinking about it for a few weeks now, the thought has emerged from months back.
How should I do it? I'm just so cowardly... :(

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-23 23:17 ID:/jh73abh

There's no need to confess to her. Just start by doing things with her, so that you both get to know each other better. If she plays along, and in due course you get close, then you may consider about confessing to her. Basically, only do it when you are sure of the "positive" answear. Otherwise just go by acts instead of words.

3 Name: sigh : 2008-11-24 00:02 ID:vt8zdsWZ

>>2
Now when I think about... I never gone out with her outside of school...
I have her MSN tho...
Sigh.. I feel that if she doesn't know how I feel about her, I'm going to lose the opportunity to know her. She might start going out with someone else...
I don't know what to do..

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-24 10:42 ID:/jh73abh

>>3

>I don't know what to do..

Go out with her. It's not very complicated

5 Name: sigh : 2008-11-24 12:17 ID:GfZKfYJt

Yeah.
Thanks.
After talking to my RL friends about it, I decided to confess to her.
Whatever will be, will be.
I'll report back. :)

6 Name: Tnk : 2008-11-25 06:05 ID:a0jfZFb+

Careful, homie.
Me here is an example of why u shouldnt confess to a girl if there's hardly anything between the 2.
Our relationship had been nice until I confess to her. Quickly, she take her distant with me, making me losing every other chances to do sth nice to her. Yes, I blew up my chance.

I'm not saying that miracles cant happen, like it might come out that she also have feeling for u and stuffs, then she will happily accept u. Or it might come out that ur bold confession make her heart melt and blah blah...

But it just dont always happen, not to say that it is usually not the case.

One word : PATIENCE. Make room for her feeling toward u grow, otherwise, it's very risky to do it.

Anw, all the best 4 u, homie. I used to be like that, so I know the feeling :))

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-26 21:34 ID:AhHeDLsd

Go out with her before. You don't need to confess right away.
Besides, if you two go on a date, develop some nice moments and all that, you won't need to confess anything - your feelings will be pretty clear.

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