So i'm a geeky girl who hangs out with geeky people. I love d&d and video games. I have always tried to be nice to people, having experianced my own degree of bullying in the past.

The problem comes in because of my looks. Although i have a little tummy flab, no more then the average girl, I have a nice looking face that has gotten me several job offers to model, and I have a pair of 36DDD breasts. I don't prance around in clevage showing outfits, out side of anime cons >_<, and usually wear high neck teashirts.

Now i like my male friends I really do but i want them to stop falling for me. Almost every guy i know cant stop making passes at me, even some of the ones with boyfriends. I can try to ignore it and tell myself they are all just kidding around, but a lot of them have asked to talk to me and have confessed a desire to date me. Saddly i'm not attracted to them and then it gets a little wierd between us.

Any tips for dealing with unwanted attention?

Make friends with asexual men or don't make friends with men at all. Even if you lay the cards out on the table when you make new male friends, there really isn't anything you can do to stop them from 'falling' for you aside from acting like someone you're not. It isn't too hard to realize it's something humans have much control over.

Unfortunately we asexuals only make up 1% of the human population, so good luck with that.

>>2
I agree with this. As a bisexual male, I've had trouble with girls that fell for me while I simply did not feel the same way. Sadly unless your friends have amazing self control or are genuinely not interested, you're going to bothered for as long as you're with them.

>>2

you're forgetting gays which account for 10% of men. That's good friend material.

>>1 I already hate you.

Becoming someone you're not is the worst possible thing you could do. Everyone should be true to themselves to a degree.

You just happen to be one of those people with good genes and a good personality, and some hobbies some guys can relate to. You sound quite ideal, actually. I do sympathize your predicament though. Unfortunately, there's two sides to everything. You can do one of two things, or both of these two things:

1. Make sure things don't get wierd between you and the friends that confessed to you. They'll get over it at some point, eventually they have to. Something they'd most likely regret is spoiling your friendship by trying. Make it very clear you aren't interested, but also don't hold anything against them for it.
2. I guess when you make friends with someone, you could tell them about your problem. Then they may sympathize with you and would make sure their interests don't go too far. I'm pretty sure that would work.