I agree, it would be better with some particular girl... but well, I'm pretty the same case and just can't find a way to get closer than a friend to girls...

but I have one particular case... it's a girl from dorm I live in, I talked to her few times, gave her chocolate as a present (more as a joke than serious)... she's cute, nice and we can talk for hours, every time I go to her room for some reason (you know, school-related things etc.) I end up talking with her for like hour or two... but I don't know what to do next, as a step forward... do you have any advice? I have experienced many cases like this but it always ended up as just being friends (no, I didn't confess in any of these times, I just knew she doesn't feel the same)

I just want to know what should I do because it seems that I can't find a way to start going out with a girl myself.... and I think it could also help Azriel