Sup SA.

Well, after 2 years of healing after a horribly abusive relationship, I have found someone new and things are looking all but official. However, part of me is terrified of getting close and actually falling in love with this girl, because although she seems perfect for me, I have a very very bleak curse that continues to haunt me: every girl I have ever dated has cheated on me and then left me for the person they cheated on me with. I've been in 4 serious relationships in my life and each one has come crashing down due to the fact that my s.o. has boinked someone while I was away and then announces that they are leaving me for them.

This new girl is amazing, and I haven't felt a connection like this is years... but how do I know this relationship will be any different from the last 4 in which I was thrown away like yesterday's trash? I want this vicious cycle to end.

captcha = hashish (wiki if you don't know what that is). That's good luck OP. I say go for it.
You won't know unless you give it a go. THink of it this way. YOu can either avoid it completely and nothing will eventuate or you can give it a go and have a chance at happiness. Probability at its simplest and finest.

Like >>2 says. Either you chose to be alone, and no one will cheat on you, or you give it a try, and maybe or maybe not you will be cheated and end alone.

In any case, only the fools think that there are certitudes in love. No one nows, and no one will ever know if a relationship will last or not. Welcome to the club.

Either:

1: Dont be with her and have no chance for happiness

2: Be with her and be (at the very least) happy for a time. At best she could stay with you forever.