I have been single for all 18.5 years of my life, never had a gf never kissed a girl, well I haven't even held a girls hand. Its not as if I'm not trying (or at least I think I'm trying) I am not a horrid looking person most people consider met to be a nice charming person. however nothing thus far in my life has lead to anything, And if I do find a girl I like I repeatedly end up ruining things beyond repair.
The strange thing is If I meet someone in person I end up ruining the relationship, If I meet someone online, Its almost as if they would do anything for me.
I just would like some advice on how to meet girls, and what to do once i do meet one.
I'm pretty confident i can keep a girl friend once i get one its just that very beginning that I have no clue about what so ever.
start from online and move to irl.. meet up and see how things go, maybe you will find yourself a gf from the internet? :)
I doubt its that easy, I mean If it was I wouldn't have a problem in the first place.
Dr. Phil. stands for Doctor Philosophy, which I would like for you to know before I get into my speech. (I dont want to be known as Dr. Phil, who is an incredibly annoying person and should be hit in the face with a shoe.)
The thing about dating comes to almost three things: 1.) Game Plan 2.) Courage 3.) Being an asset
First things first, the game plan. Seen as how I am in high school, Im going to give you my game plan, and you can adjust it accordingly.
The second part of this is courage. In order to talk to a girl or anyone, remember to have courage. Women are the exact same as us, in the idea that they are human, not mythical creatures. (although my last chick wanted to be some fucking unicorn or some shit) Be brave, and the reward is great.
The Third part is being an asset. Be something that she wants to be around. Have something desirable.
If this is all done, there should be no problem with finding a girl. Ask if you have any questions.
:) :) :)
>>4 i lold..
But, Dr. Phil! Girl here, and i have few questions!
What about these mind games, where you manipulate and not answer his phone calls for few days even though you are interested in him and want to go sex him so bad?
Or what about if im a girl and letting him boil in his own grease for a while, like telling him we'll call and make a date but whenever it happens i will not call him for few days and then make a phone call?
Or what about writing him an email and ignoring him for few days and then replying with something random but still sweet.
How would he act in these situations? he wouldn't be able to get the girl by end + the "dating" game would be longer and more interesting. What should OP do with a girl like this?! IF you think he should move to second one, will it make OP a player?
Games are silly. If the guy is at all wise to the world, then he will leave you for a more mature girl that can be serious about the relationship and not lie to 'make herself more attractive'.
However some guys like these games, etc., so knock yourself out, but don't expect it to work on every sucker.
>Seen as how I am in high school, Im going to give you my game plan, and you can adjust it accordingly
Yeah, your advice will not work outside of high school. Actually I don't think it will work in high school.
>Dr. Phil. stands for Doctor Philosophy, which I would like for you to know before I get into my speech. (I dont want to be known as Dr. Phil, who is an incredibly annoying person and should be hit in the face with a shoe.)
I was expecting a good laugh out of your post given that intro. But seriously, it sucked. I was let down.
That was a very subpar The Game.
Which you just lost.