Love? or Career?? (5)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-31 17:10 ID:bKQCo9Xx

Hi, I am new here, and I have a little problem here... well.. its not a little problem for me, but it is about my lifes hard choice, first of all, I am sorry, my english is bad, but Ill trying my best to explain it.

I have a girlfriend, both of us is 24 this year.. were not young anymore, and its time to think about career or something, we both live in a country which we have a low salary, (theres many reason behind it, but it was unwise to discuss it here, since it was a politics problem) and my family wants me to work in another country, and I planning to bring her with me.

I have discuss my plan with her and seems she quite sad leaving his hometown, because she hasnt go anywhere far from her hometown for a long time, she even doesnt have a pasport and her english is worse than me, she did say "agree" to coming with me to overseas to work (I think that was forced "agree" for me... ), but I guess it`ll be hard thing for her since she is quite inexperienced in living alone far from her parents, and I feels like I forcing her to come with me, in another side, I dun have siblings, so I must get a good job in order to take care my parents in the future.

what should I do now? T_T

2 Name: Akina : 2009-01-31 23:55 ID:k/cz7Kmk

Take her with you. If you both love each other then it won't be a problem. Teach her and help her with English, have fun with her in the new country. You guys can always go back once you make enough money...

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-01 01:26 ID:K48Y2sxe

bring her with you.
make money and bring her parents and your parents to the new country.
family reunion

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-01 18:37 ID:CuSuk+oI

If she agrees it means she loves you and wants to be with you. :)

Just reassure her that one day, when you both have enough money, you can always visit home again.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-03 02:04 ID:bKQCo9Xx

many thanks all, I`ll try my best for it :)

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