Help T^T (3)

1 Name: Black Rose : 2009-02-01 21:46 ID:1RUYj6Hk

Ok, I have this um...guy (I'll call him Chris) that I'm well, romanticlly linked with. We're not on the Boyfriend/Girlfriend status just yet, but I was seriously hoping that we will get to that point eventually. We have alot in common. We both have the same interests in music, movies, we have a somewhat similar personality, we make each other laugh, we even have the same interests in videogames. It was like we were made for each other.

Now here's the problem. Awhile back, he got really depressed. He never told me what happened, but he did let me know that he became suicidal. It really scared me. I talked with him day in and day out hoping that he would get out of his mindset, and it eventually worked. And, as luck would have it, 2 months later I became depressed (over the fact that I lost the vision in my right eye). I wasn't suicidal, but was very close to it. I looked to him for support, but instead of comfort, he more or less looked at me with disgust because of the state I was in. He made me feel worthless and pathetic, and even if he doesn't realize it, is still doing so.

I went to his best friend and asked him what was wrong with "Chris". he said that "Chris" found out something about me that made him "Ashamed to ever call me a friend again." The only thing I can think of that would make him ashamed of me because of the state I'm in is that at one point earlier on in my teen years, I did attempt to commit suicide. I don't know whether the fact that I attempted to commit suicide is what's making him feel this way about me or not because none of his friends that might know whats wrong with him are even bothering to give me a straight forward answer. I still like "Chris" alot, but I just don't know how to handle this situation. I don't know how to go about talking to him or even figuring out what I did wrong. So yeah, I need help. Any advice will do.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-02 02:38 ID:dWnuUYQ6

Man up and smack him upside the head for being a douchebag. That or think about moving on.

Sorry, trollfingers are tingling at the thought of Generic Male Character #091487. Had to restrain myself.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-02 18:47 ID:DiBkfcWE

I think you should confront him and tell him these things that the way he has been looking down on you has been really hypocrititcal and has hurt you and be angry about it you have every right to be angry even just pertend if you have to he said he was ashamed to even be your frend after everything. just make him feel bad about it. I'm sorry but it doesn't seem like there is much of a chance between you two anymore and it seems lke its going to end badly no matter what happens. but maybe if you confront him about it will make him feel guilty and sorry and maybe it will work. hopefully someone else can think of some better advice for you though maybe someone will have a better idea

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