Just a few days ago i realized how used i was by this one girl.
i liked her a lot, and i thought she liked me too. she would call me at random times in the night saying she was wondering what i was doing, she would say she misses me, she would send me songs saying how she's always thinking about me.
Before that, i asked her out, but she wasnt sure. this was 6 months ago. i stuck around because i figured that she would eventually come around and come to me. but nope.
just 3 nights ago. she told me that she likes this other guy and i get hella mad at her for leading me on the way she did. i know she was leading me on because she told me she just see's me as a "bestie" rather than a boyfriend. what made me more mad is that she's been feeling this way for the past 3 weeks. 3 weeks ago, i went through a spell of just not caring about her because i just got fed up with how indecisive she was always being. but then she drew me back in sending me love songs, saying how she feels that way about me, how she missed seeing me everyday after school, and all that. She drew me back into wanting her more than anything in the world.
but then, as i said. 3 days ago she tells me she likes another guy and that i'm a "bestie". of course i get hella mad at her and i start yelling at her. she kept playing dumb being like "why are you so mad at me? i dont understand" and i tell her she was playing with my emotions. she was just playing me the past 3 weeks and she drew me back in when she saw that i was getting further away from her. she keeps playing it off that it' not her fault she likes him. She cant help it.
then, the night after. not even 24 hours later. she's dating him. she liked him less than a week and they're dating. to make things worse she keeps on tagging me in notes that she posts on facebook about her new "man".
so now, it's day 3. every time i hear a song, or just anything that reminds me about her she's stuck in my head for hours. i cant get her out of my head. i havnt talked to her since monday. I want to jus t get over her, to forget her but i just cant. i'm trying to completely cut contact, but it's hard because she's always on my mind.
how do you guys go around and get over a girl?
after you confessed your love to her and she rejected it, did you mention anything about it later on? Also, when she sent you those songs and acted all lovey-dovey, did you reciprocate those actions or did you just, for the lack of a better phrase, take it?
>>1 just forget about the girl. She rejected you, and after playing with you a bit told you the truth. So just take the hint and call it a day.
And yep, she seems to be pissed off because you yelled at her, but then you are even.
I suggest you don't speak to this girl for a while, spend time with friends, and change your mind. Your spite is just a way you are finding of clinging to her. Not by liking her, but by hating and reproaching her. Just let her go.