Not too sure... (8)

1 Name: Whyt Lindow : 2009-07-16 13:54 ID:wg3/1tfF

I'm not too sure of what I should do,
There's this girl that I like some,
and from what I've been told, she really likes me.

The only problem is that I'm not that sure what to do about it,
I've been single for over two years now and frankly I'm quite alright with that fact and wouldn't mind carrying on that way.
So I don't really want to progress with it, but it makes me feel as though I'm pushing here away which I don't really want to do...

any ideas?

2 Name: jano.soterios : 2009-07-16 22:17 ID:eMJT9gC3

only one:

GO FOR IT!!!!!!
"There's this girl that I like some,
and from what I've been told, she really likes me."

this situation is pretty rare don't miss the chance, maybe you'll regret it your whole life

3 Name: Whyt Lindow : 2009-07-17 08:49 ID:xvM74JWl

Haha thanks,
but I don't really see it that way, its not like I need or want a girlfriend at the moment I'm beginning to see it as an obligation if anything happens and trust me I'm never going that low...
I'll see how it goes when she come back from Spain.

Got another week to wait yet...

I'll update in a week, if I need to that is.

4 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-17 23:36 ID:9mrAjGEP

i think you should give it a go but you shouldn't really force your self if you don't want to. Plus what do you have to lose, if you like her its a win and if you dont she'll proberly understand that you can't love someone that you just don't love

5 Name: jano.soterios : 2009-07-18 05:14 ID:Xg/pXl8b

i agree with anonymous

you have nothing to lose, a lot to win

GO FOR IT!!!

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-07-18 05:44 ID:6rQEpVzg

You say that you do not want a girlfriend, but that you're posting here indicates that you are not entirely decided one way or the other, or uncertain, or DO wish for a girlfriend, but are uncomfortable to step out of your comfort zone, having spent 2 years single, and posted here to... well I don't know, ease your doubts or allay your fears?

7 Name: Whyt Lindow : 2009-07-20 10:42 ID:hKQZxeZ2

Well I posted here because I would undoubtedly have throw away the opportunity otherwise, that's just how some things work in my mind.
>>4 Does have a good point though, I'm really not to sure if I could love here, which would still keep it one sided.
I've still got to see what she's like when she gets back from her holiday.
Its not really that I don't want a girlfriend, its just I'm finding I'm much happier than I was with one.

But despite that, Reading the feedback from you guys is making me want to give it a try and I've actually given it some good thought, and I might actually put some effort in.

Any progress will be posted here.

8 Name: jano.soterios : 2009-07-21 20:45 ID:KOTXqMNs

give it a try dude you got nothing to lose and you can win alot

good luck i'll be praying for a good future for you

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