Just yesterday me and my girlfriend and her best friend went to a party that we were invited to, it was fun with all the things you can expect from a party, and after hours of talking and eating, my girlfriend said to me that she wants to go home but she wated me to stay in the party and have more fun and that she can just get a cab, I insisted that I go with her but she was persistent so I gave up on taking her home so I waited with her to get a cab and waved her goodbye, then I went to a party and told her best friend that she just went home, then out of nowhere her best friend just drag me across the hall and into a room, at first I thought he wanted to talk or has something she wanted to show me however after we entered the empty room she suddenly lock the room and kissed me and push me in the bed, and we kissed but I was strong enough to stop here and ask why she was doing this, and all she said was that she always wanted to go out with me, which made me jump and as I explained to her that she was my gf's best friend she seemed not concern at all, the only thing she said was that if I don't follow her she will say to my gf that I kissed her, so I followed her but I don't like her so how can I say to her that I don't like her without jeopardising my relationship with my gf and plus if she does tell me gf I am worried if she will believe me or her bestest friend......
THREESOME! THREESOME! THREESOME! THREESOME! THREESOME!
lol.. but seriously, you were setup by your GF and her BF. The question now is why?
You are a mouse in a maze, a square in flatland. The female mind is beyond devious.
> me or her bestest friend......
Here's what you must do: redistribute these periods into the locations of you paragraph where they are sorely needed.
I wonder why some people still don't seem to get that most other people don't read huge nonformatted nonpunctuated blocks of text BECAUSE IT IS SO DAMN ANNOYING TO READ.
>>1 don't worry about it. If the best friend indeed mentions anything, just tell the story. But honestly I doubt it will happen, she has nothing to win with it, it's just a bit of bluff.
NB: she seems to be a nasty person.
It bothers me that your girlfriend insisted that she leave the party and have you stay there. Maybe you should talk to her about that.
>>Poster 5<<
Thanks but so far I've seen her with my gf and so far she hasn't said a thing about what happen in the party and I'm thinking If I don't mention the party I might be fine and if ever she does tell then I'll explain as you said to my gf and hopefully she will understand and trust me.....
>>Poster 6<<
Why would it bother you, I mean as I said before she wanted to go home but she didnt want me to go with her and since I was enjoying myself in the party she might have thought that it's rude If she drags me with her.
Which thinking about it now may not be such a bad idea considering what happened. And as I said with Poster 5 I think I am not going to mention the party to her so that I'm hoping her bestfriend might just forget about it and leave it behind.
>>7
From your description, it seemed as if she wanted to get away from you. Of course, this may not be true, but it might be worth investigating.
I agree that it's best to avoid mentioning the party and see what you can turn up. Good luck.
Well I guess I don't have anything to lose by asking her that..
And thank you..
tell your girlfriend, because it will sound much better coming from you than her best friend.
if they planned this for some sick reason, as some have suggested, break up with her because you don't need that crazy bitch
I agree with telling your girlfriend yourself. Personally I'd like the hear it from YOU instead of my best friend.
also, 'me or her best friend' depends on who tels her first.
Communication helps Trust to Grow; yet you were the last to know.
Your girlfriend talks with you. And your girlfriend talks with her (girl)friend. ~ By now... your girlfriend KNOWS what happened. Perhaps she knew BEFORE it happened, that this had the posibility of happening. Regardless... You need to talk with your girlfriend about her (girl)friend.
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this > "how can I say to her that I don't like her without jeopardising my relationship" ...is not logical.
You were NOT kissing your girlfriend, you were kissing her (girl)friend. ~ No means NO. ~ And if you would have said NO to your girlfriend's (girl)friend ... that would have been more respectful to your girlfriend than kissing her (girl)friend.
The reason is irrelevant. No means NO.