Girlfriend won't kiss after almost a month? (19)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-13 05:52 ID:QrcC/539

I've dated my girlfriend as friends for a month, and she became my girlfriend on valentine's day. So basically, we've been together for almost two months.

I've tried to kiss her, but she won't. I asked her why and all I got was: "I'll kiss you when I love you".

Also, whenever I touch her randomly, she has a shock reflex action(?).

What should I do? I feel like she doesn't like me at all.

argh.

2 Name: Hopless : 2010-03-13 08:30 ID:OWkBGsHC

Hey , in my opinion u should take a break so this girl can think about ur relation , i'am sure that she'll relaise that she made a mistake and after u 2 comeback she'll kiss u back

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-13 08:54 ID:eP1pdgER

wtf.

girls are weird.
normally the first thing they wanna do when they are in a relation is to kiss.

just try to create a moment where she feels relaxed and special about herself. Than try again.

not sure what to say else.

have any experience with girls? (kissed before etc.)

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-13 17:55 ID:fzqJChLS

Kissing seriously? If she doesn't feel comfortable kissing you why are yous dating?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-13 23:20 ID:QrcC/539

Thanks for the advice, I'm definitely gonna take a short break with her.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-14 02:38 ID:WmGgCn6m

sounds like she's been abused or raped in the past.

7 Name: cornshit : 2010-03-15 08:12 ID:zcDajRJC

perhaps she doesn't love you as of yet... does not love you enough to kiss you. wait until you want to fuck her.... i think you'll have to wait for a decade at the very least.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-15 09:18 ID:bXFCITaA

Perhaps you need to find someone who isn't retarded.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-16 21:18 ID:Ora+lXjr

This girl has, for what ever reason, decided not to kiss you. It's doesn't make her retarded, it doesn't make her weird, it doesn't make her a bitch. It's her choice and she can do whatever the fuck she wants. She doesn't owe you anything.

That being said, you have to figure out whether you want to be with her and tolerate her choice. If you want to date someone you can kiss thats fine, break up with her, that doesn't make you a bad person. However, don't stay in the relationship and then pressure her to kiss you. You have no right to do that.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-19 21:35 ID:6Rc33aXV

So, the way this is going, I imagine the rest of her requirements go like this:

second base: Slay the seven-headed Lernaean Hydra. Beware, for destroying any one head will cause two more to grow back in their place.
third base: Travel to the furthest reaches of the Great Forest of Cedar, beyond the seventh mountain range. Destroy the fearsome, mighty guardian Humbaba, son of Hambi, and deliver his head to Enlil, Lord of the Wind.
home run: Defeat the whole host of undying archons and remove the blind god Samael from his great nebulous throne of ignorance, freeing mortal man forever from the tyranny of the flesh.

11 Name: Azrael : 2010-03-20 16:11 ID:j7lGGB9J

Relationships require time you know. I kissed my ex when we're about 4 or 5 months.

12 Name: nunrg : 2010-03-22 10:45 ID:VXgM/up3

kiss is nothing.
her uncle clearly raped her as a child and shes still having issues with it.
i say just force it on her..
got nothing to lose since your relationship seems to be going nowhere

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14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-25 00:53 ID:wQq+88C3

How old are you guys? Any higher than 15, you're screwed. Nevertheless, she said she'll kiss you when she loves you. So if she still doesn't love you, why the fuck is she your girlfriend?

Something's fishy here, chap.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-04-20 13:53 ID:JTh4N/dL

>>9
This this this.
Yeah, it's a little unusual on her part, but if she doesn't want to yet then she doesn't want to. If that's a deal breaker for you, break up with her. If not, then be patient.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-05-12 06:46 ID:QrcC/539

Hey guys, this is the OP.

I'm 20 and she's 19. A few days ago, she told me she was going to go to a friend's birthday party at a hotel. She told me that around 40+ people were coming, and she told me that she invited a few people-- so I asked when and at what time the party would be held.

She told me the date and time of the party- 12AM. I said 12AM might be too late for me, and she said "ah that's too bad". After a few minutes I changed my mind and told her I would be able to go to the party. She then told me NOT to come. I asked her why and she told me that she didn't think I'd come but she told me about the party anyway, and that there wasn't enough room for me at the hotel.

I broke up with her half an hour ago, and instead of feeling sad , I feel relieved - like a prisoner that has left jail. Thank God.

This was the first 'relationship' I've ever been in, and I'm confident that being single outweighs the advantages of being in a relationship with her. I'm glad I didn't kiss her after all.

17 Name: Wonderfelt : 2010-05-12 08:19 ID:ekT51lBg

This is your decision and we respect it ... anyway
Congrats .. you have been released .. lol .
May you find a better woman next time ..

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-05-13 04:26 ID:Heaven

>>16

Just plain weird about the party situation.

Congratulations on your freedom from the ice queen. I think you've saved yourself from a lot of wasted time and energy and pain. I know you're a better man for it.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-05-15 23:05 ID:dp0NVAK+

dump her. not only for your benefit but for hers. the longer you let her string you on, the more likely she is to continue that behavior in her future relationships, which is obviously going to result in a lot of failed ones for her.

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