Hello all.
So is there any merit of doing a love confession? I'm such a otaku nerd, but there's this girl. Even though we go to different schools in different cities, she's 2 years older, which makes me a high-schooler, but she's still kinda cute and I like her.
It's not like I am going to do it now but if this feeling keeps on then I have to do something, right?
Tell me about your experiences with confessions, are they worth it or not?
No. don't be taken in by the movies and anime etc.
outright i-love-you-will-you-be-my-girlfriend confessions rarely work. even if they do, the paradigm of the relationship will probably be screwed.
imo, you shouldn't have to ASK a woman to be your girlfriend. if she's into you, it's going to happen naturally, or she's going to express it to you (depending on her character and how into you she is).
i never confessed to my last girlfriend or declared any affection before we were together. my current girlfriend more or less confessed to me first.
I would always go for the "act in concert" approach. If you act like you like her and she acts like she likes you, you will eventually get together.
Be careful with the word "love", it's not used for a crush you have on someone over the internet.
dear op,
love confessions out the blue don't work... reality isn't as nice.
Most girls, you will simply scare them off by telling them something like that. The rule is don't fall in love, and the addendum to that rule is, if you do, don't tell her... unless you are absolutely sure she feels the same way.
i guess confessing is only when u really can hold it inside and the girl is just too blur to feel ur feelings for her
hmmm... if you can't take anymore then go head on and tell it straight to her... but be prepared for whatever result it may yield
Do not be hasty ... if she is the kind of girl that do not easily just reject a confession but tries to understand what kind of person is confessing to him then go and confess but if it not .. you will need to make a way in which even its just a little bit of time you can be together and try to know each other more ... dont always try to only show your good points ... but that doesnt mean you can show your bad points too ... just be natural and give a warmth feeling of kindness .... if an opportunitiy arises where you can truly prove to her that you love her then do it .. but build points first .. I mean its not like you can make her like you in a single moment .. slowly but surely decrease the distance of your relationship ... if u need to .. change yourself if it is necessary for her to like you ... Show him your a man !! LOL .
Results will be disastrous. If it isn't obvious that there is something mutual going on already you won't have anything to gain. As previous posters said, if a relationship is meant to be, the pieces will fall into place themselves.
I agree with 2, even though I scored my current gf, by confessing.
She had bf at that time even though I knew she was clearly interested in me. after some months I got tired of waiting her to break up and just confessed so I could forget about her.
things turned out different... =D
confessions you should always do it if you have a chance so you won't have any regrets afterwards. so long as you're truthful with your feelings it is always good. be rejected or whatever, don't be afraid. those shit happens a lot but it's part of life and it makes it more interesting. without such challenges then having her won't be as sweeter. just like the feeling of getting a hooker's services.
Confessions are weeaboo and fail. You either ask the girl out and go on a couple of dates if she says yes (and then you figure out where you stand), or if you're hanging out and the mood is right, just make a move ("kiss her you blockhead!").
Theres this guy who came to my school earlier this year and he was like Boom! I was like drooling when we met we were cool friends became colser and we became really close about two months later a i messaged him that I liked him i wrote him a note and he made me tell him face to face and When I told him He was like "I reallllly like you." and he grabbed my hand kissed it and than I kissed him and than I fell asleep but than we broke up but he is supposidley gona ask my back out like next week... So tell her but don't say "I love you." say "I feel like I really like you and I wanted to know if you would like to date!"
I don't think confessing to girls is a good idea at all. I did it once and it was bad. My closest friend told me not to do it and I did it anyways.
Just don't do it :(