what was cute and interesting is now forehead slap-inducing.

i can't believe i am saying this, but that's how i feel half the time. (which is way too much imo).

just wondering if this is normal.

it's pretty normal i would say

Agreed, normal!

This happens with many people. In the beginning, their quirks are something you find attractive, in the end, those very quirks drive you mad. Why? Because you naturally focus on small things like this when you're losing interest in the person. Think of it as your mind's way of rationalizing your loss of interest. You could try talking to her about it, you can try your best to keep it from bothering you, or you can move on.

So move on? It's not like you've put a ring on her finger.

Even if you HAD put a ring on her finger, you are a still a human being ...with your own valid point of view. If you're addicted to misery, stick around. Otherwise... remember that old alley cat has no job - yet is fat, happy, and warm tonight.

If you're single, and younger than 102, you're going to find a new partner ...if you want to. There's always going to be "little things" that erk a good soul - it keeps us humans growing, progressing, obtaining wisdom ...about life, love & light.

<deep sigh> Dude, communication is safer than violence. Walk away, rekindle your-own peace, walk back, rekindle the shared peace, count your blessings. ~~ Otherwise, you know how to live on your own - which might be Healthier for you ...for a little while.

ps: All women are crazy. All men come from women.

Dump the bitch ;D