Crush --> Relationship --> Now what??? (2)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-07-20 10:44 ID:SyTww/RA

So I met this dude at the beginning of the year through a friend. Turns out we had a lot in common, exchanged numbers/msn etc. Became friends quickly, began liking each other. A while ago we started going out.

Everything seems great, except for a few things:
1) He's shorter than me T_T
2) I'm a first year, he's graduated
3) I'm really into "looking good", he um has a lot of pimples >.<

I know it sounds reallllly stupid. But it's jus something that's kinda been on my mind lately. We're kinda at a point where we are meeting each others friends etc, fitting into our different social groups. Sometimes he'll tell me that he's going out with his friends and asks me to come along, but most of the time I'll say no because I'm either busy with family or I don't feel like it because it's a weeknight and I have classes to go to the next morning. When I tell him that I'm going to hang with a few friends, he'll want to come as well, except that sometimes I don't really want him to and it's hard to "say no" to him. Omg >.< Not that I don't like him, but sometimes it's jus... I guess I want some time with my friends alone. No offense but sometimes it's a little bit annoying when he wants to tag along or when he tries to get me to go hang with his mates and I have to say no because I'm busy. He pulls the "but i wanna see youuu" thing out and it's hard to say no to that. I mean he's great. I love spending time with him, but sometimes I like to be independent as well and hang out with my own mates.

So what now? What do i do? I don't want to hurt his feelings. We've been over the fact that we can survive without seeing each other 24/7 and that it's fine that we have "alone" times. He complains that I always reject him >.<

I think he puts more effort into this relationship than me and that makes me feel bad...SIGH. I'm not going to say that I'm in an unhappy relationship or anything, just that there are some things that bug me and I don't know how to solve it. Maybe it's the whole age difference thing because hes quite a few years older than me --> different maturity levels etc etc...

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-07-20 13:20 ID:lW3RWmEo

1) Can't do much here. You are forever banned from heels girl.

2) I'm guessing you are 18 and he's 23ish? I don't think that's that bad. Does he have a job? If he doesn't then meh.

3) I don't see what the problem is here. Just tell him to wash his face, get proactive or some type of cream to treat it.

4) He's the clenchy type. Communication is the key here. Just tell him to stop bugging you. You need your "me" time.

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