So, I met this guy online, he lives in the next city and we agreed to meet up at some point tomorrow. Thing is i don't know why i agreed, or even if i want to. He irritates me most of the time, he calls it "teasing" but i don't find any of it funny. Also since we agreed to meet he didn't talk to me online much. I suppose he is a busy guy, but I haven't hear from him for two days and today he just announced to me that he is going to be in the city tomorrow on business and if the meeting thing is still on. That irritated me again. I don't want to be around a person who irritates me, but why the heck i start feeling guilty every time I start thinking that I should ditch him and just enjoy my morning sleep tomorrow? Drives me nuts.

Well agreeing to meet him was pretty stupid, so don't ever do that again, but just put up with him tomorrow.

ditch imo. you have no idea whats going to happen with this guy and you dont even like him.

if you really feel guitly bout ditching him see if you can bring someone along because its not safe to just meet someone off the net. make sure you let people know where your going and what not

just don't show up.

once he contacts you why you didn't. tell him you find him annoying and remove him from your life.

works best.

why even continue chat with him?

well, completely not showing up without any explanation seemed a bit immature, so I messaged him, told him that i'm not going to meet up with him, the whole torrent of "why"'s was like pulling a teeth, but at least problem solved. I still have no idea what made me to agree in the first place, that was so uncharacteristic of me.

When someone's bothering you, it's generally better to let them know that they are. How can one fix their mistakes if they're unaware that they're making any in the first place?