Long story short, I'm a 20 year old guy, not into neither drinking or partying. As a result of that I've never been in a "real" relationship with a girl. I don't feel comfortable "putting the moves" on someone, and most of the couples I know have gotten to know each other while drinking/partying or through people they have gotten to know on parties.
With parties out of the question, how and where will I find a girl that I will like? Should I just wait until someday I maybe just might find someone by accident eventually? There must be other ways of meeting girls that by getting drunk!
clubs, your classes, study groups, your work place? Get your friends together and plan adventures ask them to bring along other friends and single girls they know and head to the beach? Contact girls from high school or your past and ask them to hang out sometime? Or maybe even go to parties and pretend to drink its not that hard just stumble everywhere and slur your words a little. plus the girls you want are the smart ones not getting drunk so bonus points if you aren't either. As for not being able to put on the moves just be nice talk normally and expect nothing show interest but don't get worked up about it. be cool girls like cool guys right? just be like "this party sucks want to talk for a little?" If your friends have girls maybe they can help. just don't act hopeless and pathetic unless you want girls running from you.
i must agree with the poster above me. dont have to drink to go to a party, and often enough there is a girl who is in a similar situation. try the other ideas too and good luck!
~Women buy food at the super-market. If you buy food at a super-market you might have a food-related question to ask the woman & a conversation might organically grow. She might ask YOU out.
~Women go to Sporting-events. If you go to Sporting events you might have a sporting-event-related question to ask the woman & you two might score a conversation. She might ask YOU out.
~Women wash their own clothes at Laundry-Mats. If wash your clothes... etc.
~Women obtain an education at a University. If you obatining an education at a University... etc.
~Women read books and (sometimes)buy books at a book store, and (sometimes)rent them from a library. If you read books... etc.
~Women (sometimes)rent movies from a video-store (and mostly online). If you (sometimes)rent movies from a video store and enjoy talking about movies with women, and enjoy WATCHING a movie with women... etc.
~Women wait at Bus-Stops.
~Women run around the park when the weather is copasetic.
~Women go to religous structures to pray.
~Women shop for clothes.
~Women eat at restaurants alone.
~Women... don't (usually)pee standing up, but they do EVERTHING ELSE you like to do.