I like him. Conversation topics to get to know him better? (10)

1 Name: Dragonfly : 2011-03-02 21:35 ID:xOL/gKxr

After quite a while, nearly a year. I like this one guy.

We both love Classic Rock n' roll, and we like to draw.
He plays lead guitar and is good at it. And I- I've just started learning and I just play chords and sing :P

I want to get to know him better, and get close to him without coming on strong, or looking like a fangirl.

We do have many conversation topics but mostly it's about Classic Rock. I want to know what I can talk to him about other than just our favorite music. Just to get to know him better.

Any suggestions?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-03-06 07:26 ID:c9YAXOSC

"So..other than classic rock and guitars, what other interest do you have?" (phrase that however you want)

(most)Guys are very upfront about things, unless he's a massive ego-manic, you asking a few questions won't come off as too strong, and he won't be thinking "oh my god this chick is totally into me!"
Do you initiate the conversations or does he?

3 Name: Dragonfly : 2011-03-06 18:25 ID:ZaTMXfsT

>>2
I see. Well if it makes any sense, from what I've seen, we have a pretty balanced initiation of conversation. Sometimes he starts a conversation, and sometimes I do.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-03-22 10:30 ID:J1Oexlb6

Just ask shit. Anything. In any way.

What do you want to do with your life?'', What do you think about x?'', ``How does the full moon behind a lightly dancing wisp of translucent fog make you feel?'', etc.

It helps immensely that you're both artists. Emotional/deep questions will be understood intuitively and answered eagerly.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-03-22 15:54 ID:uPyYal7l

if you find that hard... just stick with music and drawing to get the ball rolling since that is what you have in common.

6 Name: Dragonfly : 2011-03-23 19:28 ID:s0+nisXP

>>4
Sure I'll do that. I like your ideas!

7 Name: Dragonfly : 2011-03-23 19:31 ID:s0+nisXP

>>4
Oh by the way, my friends are planning to ask him indirectly if he likes me. Eventually it's gonna boil down to the both of us discussing that. So what do I do? What do I tell him if it's a yes, and what do I do if it isn't a yes?

8 Name: Dragonfly : 2011-04-10 18:24 ID:jI9mz3FN

OP here
Well, we didn't have a chance to bring it up because the plan never happened because exams came up.
Today, he updated on FB that he's just got into a relationship so I won't be needing anything.
Thank you whoever wrote back in this thread :)

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-04-11 15:20 ID:NKWZnaUT

Shit stings like a bitch don't it? fuck your life

10 Name: Dragonfly : 2011-04-19 07:43 ID:p9U8XyJq

>>9
It was a little disappointing but it didn't 'sting like a bitch'.
I'm still glad he's in my life as a fantastic friend if not someone more than that.
Also, fuck you right back.

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