Protip: Life is NOT fair. Do not expect it to be. Be grateful for the good things, and embrace and encourage them. Don't focus on the bad things, don't constantly expect bad things to happen, because that will only promote you acting in ways that will attract bad stuff. (Constantly act defensively and as if people are bad, and others will feel that you are a very unpleasant person, and will not behave in a way that will contradict the pattern you keep being focused on)