heyy, alot of my reason for my low self esteem would be my hairy ass, its unmanly to shave it, and embarassing!
i'd like to know just how unnatractive it is?
is it as bad as i think it is?
i'm not hairy anyhwhere else except my legs! no girls i go out with would be able to tell. I am a vigin, low confidence, average looks, sporty, stong, etc.
opinions please guys ans gals? (especially gals!)
I know this is a weird example, but my brother also has a hairy ass(from him mooning me way too many times). He is also not so great looking in the face(big nose ect.) But he also has a great sense of humour, and he is really smart. Right now he his going out with this gorgeous girl, and she doesn't care about what he looks like. She even dumped her boyfriend of 5 years for my brother. In this situation looks didn't matter, they just got along amazingly well. So in conclusion, so what if you have a hairy ass, I'm sure you have a great personality!
Get your hairy ass of personal issues.
Go somewhere else like Love and Romance or General.
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>>2
Yeah, hairy ass really isn't that big a deal. I mean...if you had like...gross hairy balls that'd be a different story, but no girl's gonna critique the quality of your asscheeks.
>>7
hmm, my balls are pretty hairy too...is this the price i pay for having a huge one? coz lotsa people are this big without being as hairy as an ape-yeti who accidentally consumed a truck of hormone juice the day before shaving.
>>1
No offense, but that's the lamest reason EVER for having a low self-esteem. GTFO and gb2/dqn/
Who cares? Unless you walk around nekkid
Whatever, if you're feeling insecure about it, either get over it, or get it waxed. Just 'cause an ass that hasn't been shaved for a week is spiky. At least waxed hair grows back slower and softer.
PS: Don't be embaressed about getting your ass waxed. The waxers don't care for shit as long as you pay them. No one else has to know anyhow
By the time the girl can actually see your hairy ass, it's probably not going to be an issue is it...
"Oh god...that ass...NO SEX FOR YOU!"
Not going to happen, is it? If you really hate it just shave (nothing wrong with shaving), but it's really not an issue in my opinion.
>>15
dont shave, its a bad idea(i should know) , wax it instead
well, have you ever fucked someone and was complaining that you are horrible, i am not sure, sometimes hairy guys are so hot, but not like your matter, it is really the first time that i hear about hairy ass cheek, actually it is still look like sexy, put in your mind that some girls like hairy men more than any thing in this universe... ask an expert...
i am not that hairy but some girls asked me if i had shaved or not and if so they would love me to keep lots of hair in my body spatially in fiki fiki stuffs.... hummmmmmmmmmm....
dude dont worry, you are normal, and if you dont like your hair on ass you can try to get rid of it for ever by laser operations... its is kind of expensive but it does work!!!!
i'm a guy and i think hairy asses on other guys is hot. in fact, i think it's better. Hairy asses and legs are manly- and your claim of having a big **** makes you sound even better. If the girls aren't into it- maybe you need a man :)
Rejoice in your fluffy seat! I have terrible foot odour that I can't get rid of but that doesn't stop me getting dates - and foot odour is much nastier than a hairy butt.
My recommendation is to stop thinking its a bad thing. And whatever you do, DONT SHAVE IT! A hairy butt is one thing, but finding short stubble on a partner's butt years ago was the biggest turn off ever. Hairy is a-okay, but stubble feels really REALLY strange.
I have a hairy ass and hairy balls and i dont understand what youre crying about.
>>11
[Unless you walk around nekkid]
actually, he walks around nekkid and open the ass wide in front of little girls
im a female and I dont really care, so long as you dont go around boasting about it
>>1
A hairy butt isn't going to stop me from groping their butt if I fancy the guy. If you do find a girl who turns out to be too hung up on your body hair, offer a trade of services: You'll shave/wax their legs for them, if they wax your butt. Ta-da, everybody happy. :-p Though IMO it's a very silly mindset to have for a girl.
If they're that much of a personal prob, then just by some electric clippers and trim them down a bit. Myself, I've never had any woman complain about my hairy bod. All my girlfriends and ex's loved my hair. It is a sign of masculinity! Be Proud!
Dude, don't shave your ass. The only place you should shave is your face. The other stuff doesn't matter.
Learn from this wise copypasta.
ASS HAIR
I have recently made a mistake in my life, and I offer my story to all though tasteless, that you may learn from my error. It all started, as many things do, with me having trouble pooping. No, I was not constipated; this was not a regularity problem but a matter of technique. It seems my ss-hair had grown to such a length that tiny grogans were constantly getting tied up in the matted jungle between my asscheeks. It led to much frustration, with me KNOWING that I still had something to drop, but unable to shake the tenacious turd loose from its butthair dwelling.Eventually I would have to do two things: either reach down with somepaper and try to pinch off the lingering loaf (which required careful precision to avoid smearing the creature all over my rear, especially since I had no way of seeing what I was doing) or just go for broke, start wiping, and hope that I could remove all the leftover fecal matter before the toilet paper reached its Can't-Be-Flushed threshold. I was contemplating this problem, when I had what seemed at the time to be a bright idea. "Hey, this is my butt and my butt-hair, right? So why don't I just eliminate all the hair, and then my grogans will flow out like beer from a keg!" I said to myself. It is a statement that will go down in history with a lot of other regretted statements. "How many Indians could there be?" said by General Custer. "Looks like a good day for a drive!" by JFK. "There! America On-line now has complete Usenet access!" by some idiot system tech. Such was my anal shaving idea.I performed the operation that night, with a cheap disposable razor and a towel to sit on. Starting from the bottom, and shaving from the crack to the cheeks, I began the arduous process of ridding my ass of hair. Occasionally, I would have to clean the razor of accumulated hair, which I did by wiping it on the towel. Slowly, my twin mounds and the between-ravine began to resemble the hairless cheeks of a newborn babe. Finally, I wiped the razor one last time, and surveyed my work. The towel was covered with a pile of hair. My ass was smooth as ivory. I smiled, satisfied, thinking my troubles were over.I have a hairy ass and all the chicks love it (usually because they want to wax it!) But it's not a big issue pal, don't worry. It's better than having some baby-style squeaky clean ass!
I love mens asses ... I go on every single site I love hairy ones as well
i have a hairy butt too and i rub it on my girlfriend's face while she is sleeping
then she wakes up and yells
its kayuute~
my ass is hairy to and i dont know if my girlfriend will still want to have sex with me when she fins out
personally, I have an issue with body hair in general. I'm a homosexual, of the bottom variety, and I feel that the masculine appearance of my hairy legs and chest makes me less attractive.
I know that those I associate with (read, friends with benefits) dont care a tinkers cuss, but It matters to me. I have begun the long and painfull process of tweezing and waxing every hair below my neckline. I guesstimate that it's going to take me a few months, because I can only withstand so much hair pulling before I have to pack my skin in ice, and sensetive areas still remain a problem.
But I got everything from my ankles down smooth and hairless a few days ago, and the boost to my self-esteem was tremendous.
The way I see it, one can either change the world, or change the way they look at it.
tl;dr : fags like me dont care either way.
Attractiveness aside, how does one deal with those damn microshits that detach from the main loaf and embed themselves in the hair, resulting in unpleasant smearing when one wipes? It sucks, especially since the only way to get rid of the mess is to shower :(
But you're a homosexual. You obviously need to wax your arse otherwise your boyfriend won't want to have arse sex with you.
>>36 removal of hair is possible, maybe change your shitting posture and diet, I'd recommend the former
>>37 speaks half-truth, he'd just be less enticed to when i hang around nude. Also, waxing ones ass is quite difficult, either get someone else to do it or use an epilator.
for some temporary relief, try one of those hair-removal cremes. be carefull though, man-hair is thicker and will take longer to dissolve and you don't want to burn your asshole... chemical burns are even less fun down there.
my arse is hairy but im not bothered about it. im bothered about my shoulder though, they seem to be getting rather out of control over this past year :s not sure why i think its because ive started exercising regularly (so more testosterone) because its too late for puberty (im 20). ive started seeing this girl, should i ask her to wax my back? or just keep quiet about it? or ask a friend to do it? id rather wax than use a cream because from quick research waxing lasts longer and can make the hair growth stop altogether it seems if done enough.
Hi, I'm Jake and my ass is a hair-aholic. I've struggled with ass hair since I was 6 years old and it has always caused me great humiliation and low self-esteem. I've never been able to recieve a rim job because of it, girls just won't lick back there because the hair sops up all the fecal juices and bits of feces so to go back there wouldn't be a pleasant experience. I've tried shaving but it grows back the next day. The hair is over an inch in length and completely covers the crack of me bum, so it looks as if don't even have a butthole. What can I do? I need help. I'm tired of crying myself to sleep.
i think its bettah if you shave it all away!
Hey in the end of the day, the dick goes into the girl, not the ass. So why would they care?
>>24
Not all men have hairy asses. In Africa for example there are many people who are nearly or completely hairless. Even in the genital and anal areas. Are you going to say African men are not real men? There are also not so hairy people in Asia too. Hairyness is not masculine. Women have hair too. It is natural. That's all. And hairyness varies all around the world. Equating hairyness with masculinity is ridiculous because it is the hairyness of white people which is taken as a standard, as if other 'races' were dysfunctional human beings...
gosh a bunsh of gays debating whos ass has more hairs. just do buttsecks you fags
I used to think I had a hairy arse, i shaved, now i'm carpeted. If you don't like it the now DONT SHAVE IT! Plus it's masculine to be hairy. The greeks have a saying : There are only two kinds of people who don't have a beard - women and boys. The same could apply to arse hair. Just find a woman who likes manly men, instead of waxed poofy fags. Here you get alot of girls who seem to like the gentle poofy "metrosexual" kinds. FUCK THAT SHIT! Be a man and be proud!
i like my hairy arse, and ive kept in shape so its a good bum, just covered in hair. so fuck it, my girl can still squeeze my bum or whatever, it doesnt matter about the hair, i agree its manly. same for chest hair
not so sure about back hair, ive gotten quite a bit at the top of my back along my shoulders etc recently... might have to see about getting something done
WTF rimjobs are for Bi's and Homos anyway
Well you are a hairy monster. Die.
>>46
I like metrosexual men. However, I really don't care if they wax or keep their bum-hair. I'm not going to put my tongue there, which would be the only reason for me to prefer hairless skin. I find it more important that people take very good care of what they have, rather than making themselves into a living Ken-doll. Living Ken-dolls are appalling, to be honest. I don't date "men" (insert sub-stereotype of your choice here), I date individuals, real people with personalities and personal traits, who usually have XY genes.
If something as little as a bit of hair makes a chick drop you, she's way too shallow and you're a lot better off without her.
I am so hairy that ...not lying here, that 10 hair grows out of one pore, and i shave every hour i have been doing this for the last 10 years.... not jus my ass all over my body, i shave every hour, I do not work or anything because i wont be able to shave ahahahhaha sukers im lying, look i don like hair too, i had some chest hair i got rid of it by laser, and now i just have a little left which looks fukn sexy, but man my ass is hairy, but i trim it and its not a problem, it looks hairless. all the time..
its not abnormal to shave your ass and plus its cleanlier (trust me you will notice)
I am 18 and i have a hairy ass, chest, back, legs and upper arms... i dont care about the chest and legs but the hair on my ass makes it uncomfortable to sit sometimes.... also when i bend over people can see my lower back hair and i really hate it. tried shaving it but it just grew back really quick. should i wax it or what?
Anyone can have a rim job no matter what your sexuality you fool
Honestly, as a girl, I'm not going to be looking at your naked ass. Besides, we expect guys to be hairier than us; it's just the way it works. (Personally, I kind of like hairy--it feels good to snuggle up against.)
And if anyone dumps you because you ass is too hairy, then thank God the shallow bitch left.
Seriously, you shouldn't worry about it.
I look like a gorilla when in the nude, and I'm fine with it.
>>58 My boyfriend looks like a gorilla when he's nude, and I >like< it.
Girl.
I put my tongue down there and I still don't care if it's there or not. :3
The only setback with ass hair is the poop that gets caught in it.
Either use shampoo, scrub it good, or shave it.
Cleanliness is the best policy.
Heyy hairy asses are normal :D Hair is a wonderfull thing, i personally trim my front and shave my nuts xD but id never dream of shavin my ass area i have extremely hairy legs :D well not really but ive got dark brown hair so its visible alot, but it makes me feel like a man. When i was younger i didnt wanna have chest hair :( but now i cannot wait :D as long as u keep all your hair Clean its ok and oddly enough if its all clumpy try groomin it get a seperate hairbrush tho xD
my boyfriend has a hairy ass, i do too - its normal, i dont realy think about it - but i see it sometimes and im like - yea nice hair - hes got hairy nutt sacks too but i actually think its manly - itd be a bit weird if he didnt have any i reckon.
Nair it. It wont result in the same rough feeling that shaving causes. Just don't leave it on for too long. Shit burns, man.
Personally, I dislike body hair in general. But if I like the guy and he keeps it clean, I suppose I won't really mind.
My hubbie has hair there too xD it looks funny, like a gorilla but nothing to get grossed about... err xD you know, even girls can have hair there, i have a few, like 3 or 4 that are too long because i can't reach when i shave. <_< my hubbie likes to pull them and tease and i feel kinda embarassed.
my arse cheeks arnt hairy, its like inside?
i darnt shave it incase i cut myself! i can never reach it..
but i hate it being there, i dont exactly feel it cos thats sick, but just knowing its there!
if i used that nair stuff would it hurt or get worse?
Buy yourself some hair-removal lotion, like Nair or Veet.
Read the instructions, then apply by hand between the cheeks. Usually let it sit for about 10-15min, jump in the shower and wash it away.
Your anus is now as clean and smooth as can be, no annoying stubble growth, just pure comfort.
Don't worry about it. I'm REALLY hairy on my arms, legs, thighs, my you-know-what, and my ass. Each hair is like an inch long, some are even longer. That's a lot of fricken hair! But from what I read online, shaving it makes get all clumpy like a carpet, so I'm never trying that until I'm completely sure it's safe. But I actually like walking around with shorts... Kinda feels good with all this hair.
So look here is my broblem guys. I dont mind a harry ass but I need to walk a lot in my job and also when I go for longer walks and its hot I sweat and when I sweat ma ass also gets a bit wet. The problem with all this is that the hair rubs against my cheeks and it really hearts. Is this a sign that I should wax it now? should I cream it or what should I do?
im only 16 and i have so much ass hair leg hair thigh hair nutsack hair pube hair etc. and i just trim all of it up a bit except for my armpit hair. it feels good when your all cleaned up and trimmed!
Wait until it grows back. The shit itches.
Trim it with clippers or scissors. Most women find hair on men to be manly; hair around your ass is natural, but if you think it's too long, just trim it a little. No need to go all razor crazy here.
Newsflash for tweens: Boys grow hair on their bodies. I know! Unbelievable right? And expecting that you're going to get a completely hairless man: you're delusional. Or expecting he is going to shave/wax/nair/laser for YOU, again, delusional. Why do women always want to change a guy?? If you want a hairless boy, date an Asian. If you want to appreciate what makes a man a man, then get used to the hair. Men should NEVER change for some broad. You don't like my hairy ass? Then fuck off and find someone who doesn't have a hairy ass. And good luck with that.
Men! Stand up for yourselves! Let that hair grow and be proud of it! You are a MAN!!! Which means you are HUGELY different from a woman. Women shave every hair from their bodies; men don't have to. If a girl said they suggested that I trim or wax ANYTHING, I'd be like F U, bye bitch. You know those low-hangers under your penis? Yeah. Those are the source of all your masculinity, including the reason you have a deep voice and now are sprouting hair on your stomach and ass. Girls will learn to appreciate this, with time.
(Hair on the back and shoulders need removing. That is the only part of a man's body that he should be removing hair from.)
I know that at least 80% of the girls that say "eww hair" will end up changing their minds about it as they get older and recognize man-hair for what it is: sexy and masculine as hell!
So ladies, next time you see your guy, rub your hand through your boyfriend's stomach/chest/bum hair and tell him that you don't care about it because he is a man, and hair is manly and sexy. (Not every guy can grow a hairy chest, so appreciate the ones that do! Variety is the spice of life, y'know?)
And men, unbutton an extra shirt button and show off those hairs on your chest. A LOT of women LOVE to see some hair sprouting from from your chest and would die to get a closer look. If your girl is constantly nagging you about you to remove hair from some region (other than your back) then drop her at the next bus station and don't look back. Women are replaceable, men are the dying breed. (That's a long story but there's more women than men in the world, and men are more likely to have problems at birth due to unmatched chromosomes XY. Hence, men are a dying breed.) Around the corner there will always be another girl waiting for you to sweep her off her feet. A lot of girls get wet just thinking of touching a man's hairy chest. Find a girl that likes it; there's TONS of them out there!
So in summary: Wear your hair proudly men and show it off! Showing off your chest hair will get you a girl that appreciates it and won't want you to shave it off.
Hairy men are the only way to go.
Follow up to my "men are a dying breed" comment:
Males more likely affected because their sex chromosomes are not matched (XY).
In females (XX), a recessive allele for a disorder has a good chance of being suppressed by a dominant allele on the other X, provided by the father (over-rides harm).
Overall, males at greater risk of miscarriage, early death, birth defects, learning disability, behavior problems and mental retardation. Y is significantly shorter than X – less variability/no over-ride.
its a mindfuck, your mind will try to fuck with your confidence, it really doesnt matter, if someone loves you, they'll love your imperfections too
hairy ass isn't ne problem coz all mens have it its di nature nt all mens bt majority dazn hv so if dnt like it jst use hair pemanant hair remover
ew get rid of tht bush omg wat a turn of!!!!
tht is skanky
if you can make braids out of it then its gotta go.. otherwise, its fine.. unless you star in some porn video
yoo peeps,
just been reading these posts. u guys are so funny loll.
here's my take on this hairy ass issue. when it comes to girls, us guys find their physical features attractive so it's only right that it's the same for girls as well right?
WRONG.
If you trigger attraction in a girl, you could look like a monkey, she won't be able to stop herself.
ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE FOR GIRLS.
Girls like guys who are confident and self assured not some one who freaks out because he has bum hair.
Women are emotional creatures n we are logical. If you can be present with a woman and not let YOUR STUFF get in the way, women will want to be around you all the time.
We have been programmed by society to feel low self esteem due to the constant bombardments of hairless male models we see every where.
Guys are meant to be hairy because of our biological makeup.
It's true some guys have less hair than others but that's the way it is man.
SELF ACCEPTANCE is the key to eliminating self esteem issues.
Imagine there are other people out there who don't have arms or legs.
So, in essence having a hairy bum or bum crack won't kill you.
They way you THINK or not even thinking about it makes all the difference.
So accept yourself man because if you don't love yourself for WHO YOU ARE, how can you expect a chick to love you.
It's just not gonna happen but if you do, you will become a chick magnet hairy bum or not.
Over and out,
Peace and love.
Like 85% of dudes have hair on their ass region. Itz nothing to be embarassed bout. Butt hairy ballsshould be taken care.of once in a while.