what about being gay and behaving straight? (21)

1 Name: dude : 2006-11-30 18:05 ID:QSgu4HvP

guys, here is a story of my life,
i am 33 yo guy and i lived all my life as a straight guy, and suddely when i decided to get merried i found that i am not tending to females...i had sex before with girls and i was spending very good times, "actually not that good", but i was really able to have that love relationship and all emotional stuffs... now i dont know what is wrong with me, whenever i think in a girl or imagin her, i got cut off and broken edges in my (......), you know what i am talking about.
now i dont know why i keep think in spending romatic nights with a guy and like to live a love with him...
i want to get my normal life back...
please help me....

2 Name: Anonymous : 2006-11-30 18:30 ID:QSgu4HvP

hey try to focus in your life, if you went all your life normal, it means you are normal and now when you are thinking abnormally it means that you have something wrong in your life... try to fix problem and get your life back

3 Name: dude : 2006-11-30 18:33 ID:QSgu4HvP

that was my freind reply... actually he is now my boy friend... and we are sitting together and talking about that... i dont think that he might solve this problem, because he is the main cause of it...

guys please help

4 Name: Anonymous : 2006-12-05 13:11 ID:RU2J5MeH

does he give head?

5 Name: Anonymous : 2006-12-06 14:11 ID:wjMU7aze

...now why did my bullshit alert suddenly go off?

6 Name: yuka : 2006-12-07 01:36 ID:Swtnm8cz

>>1 Think about what you really want and what you're comfortable with. If you're comfortable being gay, then be gay. But if you want your normal life back, then you have to do something about it.

I don't make sense. XD

7 Name: Anonymous : 2006-12-07 10:00 ID:Heaven

>>6
Trust me, you make more sense than >>1

8 Name: yuka : 2006-12-08 06:27 ID:3glPBXKV

>>7 Thank you. =D

9 Name: strong guy : 2006-12-10 15:20 ID:k10ywnI2

you're bisexual

10 Name: Anonymous : 2006-12-28 21:46 ID:iLqjc0Fo

watch my videos, fall in love with me, think of me while you're with your wife

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GyJcYur5ftE

11 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-02 05:39 ID:Qty8PExO

You know that being attracted to a man is not natural. You body was not made to be with a man and a man can not fulfill all your needs sexually, emotionally or mentally. Being turned off to women makes me ask if you need to step back and see how you view women. You you just looking at them from a physical view? Have women hurt you in the past or even your own mom mistreat you? This is more of a heart issue than it is sex. Things in life are not solved by having intercourse. You will always come up empty. You need to view situations going on and see why you think being with a man is better for you. In my opinion it is just going to add to drama and you will be forcing a homosexual lifestyle on yourself.

What has become of your wife? What are her thoughts on this and have you asked her to help you?

12 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-03 00:01 ID:maUJb8us

>>1
Being attracted to males has nothing to do with whether or not you behave "gay". Homosexuality isn't about behavior, but attraction.
That said, your post is a tad confusing. Keep in mind, there's more than gay/straight. You might have attractions to both men and females, not necessarily equal attraction. However, so, you used to be able to fall in love with women, but now you no longer feel you can?

13 Name: fart man : 2007-01-06 16:38 ID:R54ZmeVh

watch pics of a pussy and a mans ass. and if u like the ass better, ill send u a pic of my ass for u.

14 Name: wandering jack : 2007-01-15 20:19 ID:k+66XrvG

Attraction is not from one gender to the other it won't work that way. "In general, attraction is a force that moves one object to another. If, for a person, some object, situation, feeling, etc., or another person, is attractive, this means it/he/she causes enjoyment." If you enjoy the person then enjoy them and be happy that way all you need to worry about is you and he. Also in response to #11 BULLSHIT! Humans are adapting creatures this is not an opinion but proven fact so I am sure that guys can find away to be with other guys and fill all their needs. Attraction can be to a male to a female to someone with both so just enjoy it its one of the truly free things that are fun

15 Name: Fraaaaag : 2007-01-15 23:05 ID:uXef3bcP

It's not like something is wrong w/ u.
if u just recently relized u have feelings toward guys but u still have some feelings towards women it may mean you're bisexual.
but there has been some times when a straght person can feel some attraction towards the same sex. and sometimes a gay person having feelings for the oppisite sex.
it doesnt nessecerily mean ur gay or bi.

16 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-16 01:54 ID:Heaven

>>15

>it doesnt nessecerily mean ur gay or bi.
>It's not like something is wrong w/ u.

Seconded, on both counts.

17 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-26 02:01 ID:Heaven

>>5

Paranoia? Or, maybe critical thinking.

18 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-28 00:13 ID:Heaven

>>11

If it wasn't meant to be so, then why is the sweet sweet anus so perfectly tight?

19 Name: Anonymous : 2007-02-13 06:12 ID:a6o0CV8a

>>10

I peed myself

20 Name: Anonymous : 2007-02-13 06:12 ID:a6o0CV8a

>>11

shut up please

21 Name: Anonymous : 2007-02-13 21:14 ID:a1ggfnBO

>>20
i love they way that the people that read these threads do not like to hear ideas contrary to their own. then, they get angry at the nameless, faceless posters (and trolls such as myself) and start to curse pointlessly. it's like cutting the legs off an insect and watching it squirm. cruel i know, but somehow comical.

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