well, long distense relationships r SUPER hard 2 keep.
nxt time u speak 2 her on the phone & be4 the akward silences start kicking in be like
"look, i RLY want 2 help u out. but 2 do so we need 2 talk about it. its just as akward 2 talk about this in person so either we can talk about it now or I'll just hang up"
or something 2 that affect