Help (8)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-24 03:15 ID:6CtiofBN

Hey guys,

Whenever I am around other people, like when I hang out with my friends, I rarely talk and later on I regret it. I don't know what to do or how to talk to people. How do I get rid of this feeling of fear and regret?

2 Name: fart man : 2007-01-24 03:33 ID:Y3msHVtr


3 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-24 05:07 ID:Heaven


That is not what fart man meant. He wants you to fuck his mom to help solve your problem.

4 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-24 22:16 ID:6zexH7dX

It's not that easy. I can't just talk. I don't know how to explain it.

5 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-24 22:40 ID:Heaven

Lemme guess... unlike other people, you aren't good at conversation. If anyone askes you anything, you're more likely to answer with a "yes " or "no" answer instead of answer exaplining reasons why.

Afterwards, when you get home and such, you think "I should have said such and such," though at the time either those words didn't come to you, or you didn't think it was nessasry to say them. You're most likely an afterthinker --Someone who comes up with good ideas and responses when it's too late.

Not only that, but you think that if you do talk and say the wrong thing you might give peple a bad impression, and they might get to hate you and avoid you. You'd rather stay neutral than be avoided. Am I close?

Probably not. Well anyway, >>2 is right. Talk. Throw away you inhabitions, and just say whatever comes to your mind. It might be a strain at first, but after a while it will start to just not matter to you.

6 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-25 02:16 ID:TG8OCqTd

O_O Get out of my head, Charles.

That's me, that's exactly like me. D:



7 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-25 03:38 ID:xYE7u830

>>5 the first 5 lines is EXACTLY what i do all the time.

8 Name: fart man : 2007-01-25 06:22 ID:Y3msHVtr

like >>5 says, uve got to talk. i can understand u want to stay nutral rather than being avoided. but i know that everybody can offend others(even their closest friends) sometimes, though unintentionally.

u will be avoided by others before u r aware while keeping ur mouth shut with intention of being nutral, if u continue not taking with others.

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