I have a gf for the past couple of years. She's great. Yet I'm looking to tap another chick who used to live in my state then moved to Alaska. Not to mention there's this college student I've been emailing on occasion for some no-strings-attached and she's local to me.
I want to be faithful to my gf. The last month she was pulling some mind-game shit on me, giving me the silent treatment and generally making me feel like she was through with me. Now things are alright but it's set into motion this desire to go fuck around.
The college chick seems like she might get attached and attach a string which will only lead to more strings. Today I realized the chick in Alaska really isn't interested in me depsite the fact when she arrived there she sent me an email asking "do u haev a gf" and all hinting while I responded, "Aw jeez, I want to but I can't."
Another problem is the fact that I have the potential for all this tail, I oughta be happy but I'm not. In before "kill yourself" and "desu"

I can't help you. Your problems... are OVER 9,000!

dont cheat. that wont lead to good stuff - you get known as a cheat, your gf will spread rumours out of spite etc etc.

if you must, then split with your gf (you could easily use the reason that she was really off with you over the last month which makes you think shes not into the relationship anymore) - then go shag the brains out of the college chick. its possible you could avoid getting strings attached, but youll have to be quite strongwilled about it.

oh and also, this wouldve been a lot better suited to the L&R board - but its not like any moderation goes on around here and the two boards are full of whinging anyway lol