i have this problem of erection...no no it's not that i can't erect, it's becuse i sometimes erect when i m too close to my girlfriend,and sometimes she calls me to hug her i m scared that she feels it's errecting.would this be actually okay?
come on...
you are a guy, you can't really help how you body reacts (well you can but that's some damn hard training). She just has to understand Iguess... I necessary, tell her about this. Try not to be really embarrased, that always makes you either more credible or look like a loony.
lol i am just scared that she thinks i am just a horny guy ._.
>>3 well, you arent just a horny guy but you are too.
well...
if your horny your horny - can't be helped?
if uncomfortable, mention that it's automatic (duh, she should know that - biology?) and doesn't mean your mindlessly lusting or whatever (although that would be perfectly normal).
don't be embarrassed. It's normal and she should understand that. In fact, she should be happy about it. So long as you don't act like a jerk she won't think you're just a horny guy.
also, i'm sure if your girlfriend got to choose between the two ends of the spectrum she wouldn't like the situation where you NEVER have an erection around her...
lol thx i think this made me feel better around her..at least i won't be too scared to hug her next time she asks me too.thx again
Lol. don't worry about it. provided that your girlfriend isn't a puritan prude (no offense), most girls would be a little surprised but probably pleased, since they'll think that you're sexually aroused because of them. And being horny's nothing to be afraid of. Hell, if you're good in bed then even better.