I don't understand this term! (Okay, I know what it literally means, but I don't know how to interpret it!).
Basically, here's my situation. There's this girl I'm really into. She's really nice and all, but she seems to be "busy" a lot. Now, I know she has a ton of friends and she parties every other night, so I don't think she's making excuses or anything.
How can I tell? I'm a pretty bright guy, so I can usually tell if someone is just giving me the old "I've got to do this thing..." just because I annoy them (thankfully, I don't annoy many people). But with her I can never tell! Just the other day she sent me some texts a 3 and 4 in the morning to see if I was up, so I can assume that she at least has some interest in me. So is she just legitimately busy all the time? What are some of the signs that a girl is bored of you?
Another thought, if a girl was legitimately busy and really wanted to do something some time, would being persistent bother her? Obviously calling every day would annoy someone, but what about inquiring once or twice a week?
Until I read about her texting you, I suspected she may've been avoiding you. However, getting in touch at odd hours "just to talk" can indicate several things: she could want to talk and may genuinely be busy the rest of the time or she may even be, gasp, shy-- thus texting at hours you may not be up and immediately responsive. Either way, if it sticks to texting and talking long into the night, you face the distinct possibility of turning into her confidante and planting yourself firmly in "friend territory". Try to make a date ASAP. If she makes an excuse, be a bit persistent. Suggest she let you take her out for coffee or dessert after her plans. Something like that. Just be sure to facilitate some meeting. Once you try accommodating her clearly very "busy" schedule, if she's still unwilling to get together, give it up. She's either uninterested and, hell, even if she is interested, she doesn't value your time and efforts because she's evidently not making any effort of her own to try and change her plans.
girls are fucking fags i swear to god