Ok so here's how it goes.
I was dating this girl for a while and i broke up with her, I said i still wanted to be freinds and we have beeen freinds for the past year. However after I broke up with her she's been having suicidal thoughts.
Now we've been having sex even after the break-up and it just started getting good. I want her to move on so I can go out with other girls without hurting her feelings. but she wants to go back out with me.
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1 - Quit her as your sextoy
2 - Find her a boyfriend
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If she's been having suicidal thoughts, it works out in your favor.
This will yield the following results
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2. she fulfills her suicidal thoughts and you don't have to worry about "oh god! I made her do those things!" because with suicide, the choice is hers and she committed to it, then did it.
After all of that, cut all contact with her. If it was a long relationship, it can take years for her to get over you, so be ready for that.
"I said i still wanted to be freinds"
"we've been having sex even after the break-up"
"without hurting her feelings"
You still want each other, you idiot. Stay together with different rules.
Either be with her, or don't.
If you have sex with someone you KNOW likes you in a serious way, while at the same you just say "they're not my girlfriend," you're hurting them. Don't use the excuse "It's her choice; she doesn't have to have sex with me or spend time with me if she doesn't want to," because she obviously DOES want to. It's the fact that you're allowing her to do that -- that you're leading her on -- which will cause an incredible world of pain and suffering for her.
If you just say, "It's not my fault she feels bad, because it's not like I'm forcing her to have sex with me," then you obviously don't understand the way the human mind works.
If you continue to lead her on, then you are scum.