though you want them to, to the point of frustration, those platonic relationships just aren't working out.

mine is right now with a girl. i really want to be her friend, but she goes completely against my grain. i am not someone to be pressured into plans, because i never make plans. and she always wants a plan, and bothers me about things we are going to do weeks in advance. right now, i as supposed to paint her something for christmas, but i didn't have the money for paints. i tried to stall, and then just ended up telling her i couldn't at the moment. she acts it was the only thing i've had to do for the last three weeks (which isn't true at all).

so really, hopefully we ccan make up or resolve this, but i really don't know.

friends aren't people that stress you out, by definition, at least not to a huge extent where it bothers you like this. For a long time, I had friends that I had to "do things for," and that gets old after awhile, because you realize all you're doing is allowing yourself to be used. If you want to resolve this with her then sit down and talk with her about it, let her know you don't like pressure? Then who knows. good luck
(o.o) d

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