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Not to overrate myself, but I consider I'm far from shallow and boring. I'm quite educated, have a solid and diverse culture, and enjoy discussing and sharing. I come from a scientific background, and into an artistic career. I can tell you that narrow-minded people do not result from the kind of education they get. At most, it will give them which side to take - rebellious or conformist. Actually the most close-minded people I know are either in art, psychology, sociology, and such.

Also, I like to drink, be it a drink or two with friends or the occasional huge 'let's get shitfaced' party. Because, guess what, it can be fun too. I'm not saying that you have to drink; but considering people as shallow because they do is a proof of yourself being narrow-minded, and doing so you probably miss a lot of really nice meetings.

Well, that's not my point. You're right; really interesting people are rare when you increase your own standards, because you'll seek people that match them. Seems logical to me. But that don't mean you can't enjoy some qualities in people who havent got "the whole pack". That guy might never have opened a book, but he's really knowledgeable in music. That other girl couldn't care less about philosophy, but she's an awesome cook and a funny person. Get more people around you, and switch from one to another when you're starting to get bored of one of them.

And when you find people that match your standards, well, do your best to become good friends. Chances are that they seek people like you too.