So there's this chick that I want to be better friends with. We talk a lot and whatnot but I want to be good friends with her. No, I don't want to fuck her because I know she's a lesbian and is not interested in men. She's really cool and we share many similar interests. However, I am really shy and she's really outgoing. Command?
talk to her more. find something you both enjoy and engage in that activity with her.
>>1 Just work the broad angles. Pay closer attention to things you might have in common like reading, TV, video games, etc and simply build off that.
Depending on what you mean by "want to be good friends" then I would say go as so far as to show that you aren't just someone that can be fun to be around, but also someone who can listen to problems and try to help out when life isn't so cheery. But then again, since you mentioned she's a lesbian then she may think you aren't aware of this fact unless she already knows you know.