Six months ago, I was close friends with a girl. I soon discovered that she was cheating on her boyfriend with two men (who both considered her to be their "girlfriend"), and having sex casually with one more. I refused to see any of her men, and distanced myself from the situation. Eventually I couldn't take her bad morals and stopped hanging out with her.
Suddenly, I'm talking to her boyfriend again, over six months later. Her and him are still together, and he says things are going great.
Should I tell him that she cheated on him six months ago, and may still be? Or should I simply let him remain blissfully unaware? He seems to be really in love.
i think that you should tell him. it'll hurt him a lot at first, but he needs to know. I mean, it's not something i would want to hear, but it's something i would need to know
Tell him, the bitch needs some asskicking
Thanks 4-ch. I told him. I kept a diary of the cheating she was doing as she was doing it, so I'm going to offer to give it to him.
how did he take it?
I decided to tell him over AIM, as he lives half an hour away and I really don't have the money for gas to go see him. He stopped talking for a few minutes, and so I asked if he was okay. He said "I guess so," and then explained that the only thing he could do is confront her about it and see what she had to say for herself. I doubt he'll keep me posted on how things go, though.
I wouldn't expect him to. Doesn't stop you from wanting to know, though. I mean, he IS your friend. Did you give him the book thing?
He's not my friend, actually. We were casual friends through the link of his girlfriend last year, but we had never spent time together alone. Regardless, he didn't want the diary, even when I offered to scan the pages in so that neither of us had to waste gas to get it to him.
I have a feeling that I'm going to be hearing from his girlfriend soon, though. "Oh my God! You promised to never tell! You ruined my life!"
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Good move. Wish my best friend had have done that instead of getting on the bandwagon.
i wish i had friends as honest as OP
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Good move OP, I hope he believes you, and that his slut gf doesn't deny it and pulls some bullshit about how you might have had a thing for her, and you just being jealous, trying to ruin things.
Good move.