I used to be a real huge nerd with no social life just untill recently. I had no friends at all and I only left my house to go to school. At the end of my junior year I moved to a different city and I decided that I needed to change. I lost a lot of weight, started dressing better, and just took better care of myself in general. When this school year started I made a lot of good friends started going to parties and all that and just having a fun high school life. I have really good friends that all try to help me out, and they've all mentioned one thing or another about my nerdy personality.

I would say I'm a funny guy, and that's pretty much the only reason I've been able to make friends. I'm so clumsy, I lack a lot of common sense, and I have no confidence in myself. The way I do things in generally are very akward, like my walk, the way I use my hands, the way I always fidget and always look like I'm nervous. I want to stop acting like this. I've tried imitating my friends on how they do thing but nothing sticks.

I'm not that ugly or anything but I am also just too nervous around girls. My friends have tried hooking my up with girls but it never works out. I just don't know what to say to girls when I'm around them. All the advice my friends give me just don't work.

I want to change. I don't want to act like this anymore. I want to have confidence in the way I do things and just be more of a man.