I am a huge loser. I'm rich, hot, charming, and well-traveled. I speak three languages and play multiple instruments. Everyone who meets me holds me in fairly high regard.
Still, I have NEVER been to bed with a female in my life. Something about sex causes me to recoil in such absolute horror. When I get obvious flirting from a girl (or frequently guys), my stomach gets this sinking feeling. It's even worse when I go to clubs and things get more aggressive. Sometimes I see this as a problem, and other times I feel indifference or even pride towards it. To have anyone's mouth on my dick, or even kissing, makes me want to vomit. It's hard to tell a person that you find attractive that their hand touching you is making you want to blow chunks.
My family is disappointed in me. If I were gay, it still wouldn't matter. They simply want me to have a companion. Very traditional family in a lot of ways. I'm not gay, but I've never had a girlfriend. My parents are proud of me in a lot of ways, but they consider my problem to be a result or laziness or rebellion.
And I'm not the loser type. I don't often BAAAWWW and never get things done. But I'm at a total roadblock here without a clue how to deal with these feelings.
Maybe you're asexual?
http://www.asexuality.org/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality
All I can think of at the mo.
Guys yell and over-react when they see an attractive female.
Females think they have to dress up in order to get that response from males.
When you think about it, it is an aggressive game with both part trying to force a reaction from one another.
Most people don't think of it and even accept it as the norm.
But there are other people who are somehow immune to this game. You might be one of them.
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You disgust me. Why the hell do you need our help if you're all that you say you are.
As someone who lost at the genetic lottery (short, ugly, poor, and stupid), I kindly ask you to leave and let your money solve your problems.
Consider yourself lucky that girls even flirt with you. I've never flirted and I'm 18-motherfucking-years-old.
>>5 if this is true, then OP, please take ur /b/ullshit somewhere else; im sure all of us here who want to talk about things dont have time for this shit
Sorry, but I'm not joking. It's a personal problem of mine. Not /b/ullshit. And even people who aren't ugly, fat shut-ins can have social problem.
Hi, you might want to speak to someone about it. Perhaps a close friend, or a counsellor/psychotherapist.
There are many reasons why someone could be avoiding the otherwise normal sexual impulses in humans. Avoidance tends to be caused by some anxiety or another. Anxiety is often caused by a previous experience in the past that is in some way affecting your present.
Good luck.
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