Traveling back and forth (5)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2008-08-04 11:48 ID:MKBr01Ex

Hi,
I had been traveling back and forth from home and back to college but when I was up at college this last semester some bad things happened and I wasn't able to finish. I thought that if I came back to home and go to college here I would do better but as the college year is getting closer in the town my college is and I am working at a shitty gas station for $7.50/hr here at home and waiting to go to community college at home, I am thinking of going back. I have already told friends there and friends and family here I am going to stay but I keep changing my mind. I am also afraid that if I got back my friends here will hate and be pissed at me. My family doesn't really care what I do and would help me get back to my old college before school starts. I really hate my job here and I hate how I just sit in my room all day, living with my friend, and doing nothing. Does anyone have any opinons on what I should do? I am so confused if I should stay here or go back. Mostly I am afraid of my friends being upset even though I told them I would stay and this is the second time I have done this. Please help.

2 Name: moral relative : 2008-08-04 14:55 ID:VbNZDpQJ

Sounds like you like being at the college. If you hate being at home you should go back.

3 Name: Anonymous : 2008-08-04 20:01 ID:xMbH5jEC

Don't let your friends hold you back.
I mean, of course try and stay in friendly contact, but if they aren't willing to let you move on and get in a better place, then they aren't being fair.
It's natural they might be upset, but explain everything to them and make sure they know this is important to you.

But the most important thing is first decide on your OWN what you'd like to do.
With no input from family or friends, do you want to go back?
If you do, decide so and don't tell people: "I might go back, I'm thinking about it..."
Say: "I'm going back in the Fall."

4 Name: 43 : 2008-08-04 21:37 ID:TQJUz4iw

>I am also afraid that if I got back my friends here will hate and be pissed at me
>Mostly I am afraid of my friends being upset even though I told them I would stay and this is the second time I have done this

Whatever you do in your entire life make sure you're doing it to satisfy you and only you.

The first commandment: Love yourself over anything else.

5 Name: OP : 2008-08-05 04:27 ID:MKBr01Ex

Thank you. I will think this over more.

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