should i try to regain my honor? (8)

1 Name: Jhung : 2008-09-26 03:01 ID:WFpifFvx

today during English class at my community college we were assign groups for a presentation. one of the group member a black 6 foot i say weights about 200 pounds+. started getting mad because 2 other girls and i were trying to finish the previous work.he got all ghetto on us since i was the closest person to him he was directly talking to me. i told him to get out of my face it was then he stood up and insulted me i was took it and it kinda made me feel weak and like a wimp since everyone was starring. here i am a 5'6 weights about 140 poundsAsian guy i did take Brazilian jiu jitsu for 3 years but i knew the size different was too big. now when i go to class i feel kinda insecure and regretful like i should i fought him back.how do i deal with this? should i try to forget it after that humiliation or do something about it?

2 Name: Jhung : 2008-09-26 03:04 ID:WFpifFvx

i forgot to mention that this guy is like 26-28 and im 17

3 Name: Anonymous : 2008-09-26 03:45 ID:KjDU6nX0

Don't worry about it.
Seriously, you did the right thing not to fight back. All it would have done was cause a ton of trouble for you, so it was good you didn't do anything back.
If he comes up to you again, it might be okay to retort back (COOLY, though; nothing derogatory, and stay really calm), but don't do anything physical.
And, if he doesn't approach you, just ignore him completely.
If I saw something like this happen, I seriously wouldn't belittle the guy at all for not fighting back, so don't worry about it at all.

4 Name: Jhung : 2008-09-26 04:08 ID:WFpifFvx

thanks for the advice #3 i keep that in mind the next time i go to class

5 Name: Anonymous : 2008-09-26 05:16 ID:Heaven

At his age the black guy should be mature enough to not act like a child in public. Don't lower yourself to his level.

6 Name: Anonymous : 2008-09-26 06:00 ID:Heaven

Kill him, kill him dead.

7 Name: Anonymous : 2008-09-26 13:36 ID:Heaven

He's on the same study level as you with around 10 years difference.

Take a hint.

8 Name: Anonymous : 2008-10-05 04:35 ID:b4jl9Nsy

stab him, ese.

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