complex... well done. I had, and in a way, still have similar issues, but seeing a sexual therapist helped get me over some of it. It was hard work though, so please don't get discouraged! Sometimes it was almost like a masochistic activity, I knew it would be painful but I couldn't stop going :) (bc I knew it was necessary if ever I wanted to get better). So please, stick with it :) that said, if you don't feel comfortable with your therapist after the first session, try someone else. There's no point doing it if you don't trust her. I tried two before I settled for the third one.