Losing myself - What do girls look for in a Guy? (53)

7 Name: Anonymous : 2008-12-08 22:42 ID:P+hsc5oU

You seem to seriously lack of self confidence. You have a scottish accent, and so what? Why should an BBC not have a scottish accent, if he lives in Scotland? If people in HK look down on you because of your accent, they are just being silly, and you should brush it off. Actually, I do like the scottish accent, and I think it can be quite popular (think of Sean Connery). Just take the whole issue a bit less seriously, and laugh it off.

As for your love interests, it's more complicated: I think that you should explore your interests, whatever they are. If you feel constrained by your family, I suggest you contact an LGTB association in your town (Aberdeen), so that you can meet people who lived what you are going though. This does not mean that you have to follow that path, but it can help you see how other people solved the problems you are facing, and help you out.

Personally, I don't see much point in going after girls if in the end boys are your main interest. You would just be a pain to them, and they would pay you back with interests,... I think you would gain more by learning to know yourself better.

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