So girls should approach guys, eh? (96)

47 Name: Anonymous : 2009-02-24 10:52 ID:GoVdnOH8

>Tell me, had you already been on good terms with your partner, that is to say, you approached her and started a good conversation with her before you started dating, or did she approach you out of the blue and propose the acquaintanceship?

I didn't know her before she started hitting on me. Actually later I learned that a common friend had showed her a beach picture of me and she decided she had to meet me. We met at a party and she monopolized me for the whole evening. It was not subtle. By the third meeting she "accidentally" kissed me on the mouth when we where kissing our goodbyes. It was obvious that she was interested in me. I thought about it, decided to give it a try and asked her out. So as you may notice, although she clearly was the active party in this business, it was still up to me to officially "ask" her out, and that's where culture comes in. Although she was heavily and visibly invested into creating a relationship, officially she had made no move and expected me to do it, because that's how things are supposed to happen in our culture (fortunately this is less and less the case).

>A woman will never approach someone who's shy either or who generally keeps to himself. No, she'll be far more attracted by the actions of someone who is as loud and arrogant as possible. Even though these personality types are abominable to begin with, why take a chance and talk to the guy minding his own business in the corner?

Well, its obvious that people who stand out have more chances of being noticed that shy people who are good at passing unnoticed. And although people may stand out for the wrong reasons, this still gives them an advantage over people who are not noticed at all. In my case, she did not know me before we met, so it did not matter if I was shy or extrovert (I'm more on the introvert spectrum).

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