How is it a trap? It seems like it could be something to motivate a person. I'm in the same shoes as the OP. I see service as something that would force me to be with people, bring me different places around the world. Sounds like I'd gain so much life experience. So please tell me what is wrong with a hopeless person enlisting? This seems like an option for me and I'd like to hear all sides before making such a big decision.