I need friends. (20)

1 Name: Lonely : 2009-07-14 19:17 ID:BG3OHTJA

I am lonely. Its retarded, really. I'm in a secure long distance relationship. There is nothing wrong with it.
Inb4gooutside, I live in a small town place where I can't make suitable friends.
In a big city setting, there are more people you could be friends with.
I'm not looking for physical friends, just online friends. I am on my computer for most of everyday, so yea.

I'm just looking for a person or two to talk to. The internet is huge. I'm sure I can find someone with the same type of interests as me. I just don't like very public social networking like myspace or facebook.

I don't know what else to tell y'all. If you are looking for a friend or just want to talk to someone, post back. If you want, post your email or something. I'll post mine if enough people ask for it. Ask for more details, if you want to.

Or, if you can recommend some fun forums/websites where I could meet (non-stupid) people. Thank you!

2 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-14 20:54 ID:GxUYVML1

you seem to be picky,... What are your interests?

What do people that you don't find stupid do, that catches your attention?

3 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-14 23:26 ID:wGcZPvmP

What are you looking for that you can't find someone to shoot the shit with?

4 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-15 00:11 ID:35HxHPPU

I've set up a temporary e-mail address you can contact me in.

nomennsc2 - AT - gmail - DOT - com

5 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-15 17:39 ID:FeQq59Rp

shakes hand
smiles happily
how is it going?

6 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-15 19:24 ID:F5FmHe+V

Friends are overrated.

You need Whores and Cocaine.

7 Name: sage : 2009-07-16 03:02 ID:Heaven

OP, just hang out on some forums (not BBS boards like this or 4chan) that relate to things you like...books, games, music, etc. IRC is also a great way to meet people, especially in your own city or surrounding area.

8 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-16 07:41 ID:J69+uLhz


9 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-16 19:48 ID:utC+BX1O


10 Name: Lonely : 2009-07-18 03:20 ID:BG3OHTJA

Sorry about not replying in awhile. Internet died. -_-

My interests are kinda varied.

And more background, I'm more of an introverted person. I never liked being around people when I was young. I had more fun on my own than with people. But now I'm a bit older and I have the need for friends.
But here, the people are redneck-ish people. Kill defenseless animals for fun. I love animals. But I don't kill them for lulz.
And as said before, this is a small town. Full of ONLY those type of people.
And not being the same religion as these bible-thumpers only isolates me further from the general population.

And people that interest me are people that think for themselves. I don't care if they are popular or friendly or even mean. But if you ask them nicely to jump, they better not fucking jump until they know why.

11 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-18 18:49 ID:NzjV1fqu

>My interests are kinda varied.

But what are they.

And A/S/L too, pls.

12 Name: w0rt3ltjestaart(a)gmaildawtcawm(yeahyouknowwhatImeangoddamnexchangethenumbersforlettsdamnit : 2009-07-19 02:49 ID:Kh4RaTm5

To be honest, it is almost impossible to find actual friendship on the internet. Even if you are good friends with someone you talk to everyday on IM or email or whatever the fuck you do, text messages are different from actual conversations. Maybe I'm a little different than you, in the fact that I don't have friends and I don't care. However I think most of the people here will acknowlegde that online, actual real friends are even harder to come by than actual real friends in "real life".

If you're going to look for friends on forums or online games or whatever, you shouldn't expect too much. People online are selfish. Even more selfish than people you meet around you. Just as you are selfish in your own way. Internet drama is retarded, and I'm sure you have witnessed a lot of it, since you're asking this slowass BBS for help. Your town is shit, you don't like social network websites and you're an incredible nerd. No problem here. I might post my email after typing this post(this is actually one of the first things I typed), depending on how I feel. Also, if you do happen to email, I can't really say I will reply very soon. I work away from the tube connection, and eventhough I have tube on my mobile phone I can't really promise I have time to react to your message. I think I haven't checked my email in one and a half month. Honnestly I don't even have that much to say though. If I did maybe I'd have a lot to talk about. Start a blog, like "normalfags" do. All in all, you don't have friends. Who cares? You do. Okay, fine. But either this is your firest couple of weeks without friends and you're in despair, or you've been doing without friends like a lot of people have. In that case, you won't die just because you won't have friends soon. You've lived your life without friends, you won't die if you won't have any either. Besides, there's something about friends. Maybe people with a lot of friends can explain better, however there are a couple of different kinds of friends around. There's people you know, but kind of distant. Nice to you, since they try to get whatever kind of things from you in whatever way. There are what I call comrades. People that are okay, you can hang around with them, they're fun and nice to you. Great. You'll have a lot of fun, but in the end they won't care about you if something happens. There are a lot of people like this. Maybe this is the largest group of people you know. Or will know. The "people you know" are the next group in size. A bunch of fags but with their uses. Exploit them as they try to exploit you. You'll find out how to find their uses if you're not an idiot. Then, there are friends. This is the big thing. People talk about friends if they're easy to find. In my kind of view, they're not all that easy to find. I only have two. I can't even count how many comrades and "people I know" I know. Online AND offline. Friends are things you deside for yourself if they are friends or something "less". As harsh as that sounds. Friends are people you can always count on. People that'll support you, instead of "support" you and then try to take advantage of. Well, I'm not really going to post a lot of more, but if you're not a dumbass you'll understand this. You'll know what to make of the email.

13 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-19 12:15 ID:DUG6LMdi

try otakubooty.com

really smart people, but can be vicious in the forums...

14 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-19 19:00 ID:10qdJzdO

I found a good female friend on an anonymous chat website, but I have to agree that it's really hard to find friends online. A lot of people don't mesh with Facebook or Myspace either, I think because they're more about profiles than communication between people. That being said, I have one and I'm embarrassed to use it because my only friends on it no longer speak to me.

Oh well, I might be trying >>7's suggestion soon.

15 Name: silver serpent : 2009-07-26 04:46 ID:nNtN4VM8

friends are overrated.
I just totally ditched my best friends of 8 years.
3s a crowd and they always gang up on me.

16 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-26 19:48 ID:uSN6+AiJ

Friends are hard to find.
A person you talk to and are on good terms with, even if you go out for drinks every Saturday, is not necessarily a friend.
I used to think I had friends, but naturally when things got rough I learned the hard way.

17 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-27 05:33 ID:10qdJzdO

18 Name: Anonymous : 2009-07-28 05:38 ID:Le2jTpH/

Run around the town naked screaming, "Burn the bible! Jesus can kiss my ass! You're all ignorant redneck faggots that fuck your siblings in the ass!". You'll make some great friends in just 10 minutes. Trust me.

19 Name: eebs : 2009-08-05 21:45 ID:kFlXqQU1

one of the reason i came on this forum was to by any chance make a new friend as well.
i can really understand how you feel, since in a situation very similar to yours. I live in a town full with different kind of rednecks than yours ( thank god, that my rednecks don't kill animals for fun!) but still very stupid and self-centered. I do have my boyfriend in the same town, but sometimes i need more than one person to communicate. i used to have many online friends but we all grew up and sort of parted ways...
you should tell us about your interests and hobbies. Oh and if you want to talk with me ( well if you're bored enough to try :P) : heitenangar AT hotmail . com
see yus around and hope you won't be so lonely anymore

20 Name: eebs : 2009-08-05 21:54 ID:kFlXqQU1


your post is a big wow! and i gotta say it made me think a little about my real friends as well ( only 2 as well ). Thanks for the post

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