When I talk to most females, I seem to have two issues with them.
One, the conversation seems to be hurried. It is like they will seem to hurry up and end the conversation or they can leave or I be on my way. But I have seen other men talk with women but all of the sudden, she wants to talk for hours with him.
My other issue is when I walk up to a any female (and 99.9% of them do this) to talk with her on whatever issue, she immediately covers up her chest. If she is wearing a sweater or jacket, with 3 to 5 seconds of walking up to her or her seeing that it is me, she is covering up. If no jacket, she'll angle her body and use her arms or get up and grab a sweater or jacket. Like it is damn near instinctive.
I would not be concerned if this was an occasional thing but it is a daily occurrence, at least from my perspective and I have seen these same females do not cover up when talking with other men, I have seen them take sweaters and jackets OFF.
Does anyone else notice this? I cannot believe I am the only guy who notices this.
Maybe if you weren't focusing on their boobs, they wouldn't do this and so there'd be nothing to notice by staring at their boobs.
That, and on a 1-10 attractiveness scale, where do you think you are? (also, do you look/act like a huge nerd, or not). And what are your subjects of conversation of predilection?
> Maybe if you weren't focusing on their boobs, they wouldn't do this and so there'd be nothing to notice by staring at their boobs.
Way to start out...by being a dick. If I wanted to focus on their boobs I never get that far. I'll recap because you are apparently slow and a poor reader.
I walk up to her and within 3 to 5 seconds she covers up, happens all the time, even with females whom I have never met or know.
>>2 has a valid point. Why else would they move to cover their chest? Because your presence makes their boobs cold?
Seriously, they say that the first 10 seconds in meeting someone is the most important for making an impression. And for your information, it takes less than 3-5 seconds for a girl to notice that you're looking at her chest. A split second glance would be enough to reach for the jacket. You're obviously doing something wrong within those 3-5 seconds, which is something either body language or appearance related.
>when I walk up to a any female [...] she immediately covers up her chest. If she is wearing a sweater or jacket, with 3 to 5 seconds of walking up to her or her seeing that it is me, she is covering up. If no jacket, she'll angle her body and use her arms or get up and grab a sweater or jacket. Like it is damn near instinctive.
Don't worry OP, it's nothing personal. Women are mammals, so they are kind of spooked by your blueish scales and forked tongue. Besides, the hissing in your speech probably sends them the shivers, hence the covering up.
Joke aside, there is definitely something about your appearance or demeanure that just makes women uncomfortable. Why don't you ask directly one of them about it? After all, they are endowed with the skill of speech, so you might as well get the the info from the source.
>>3
I'm >>2 but >>4 answered for me. I won't enter your little game of name calling, but let's just say that yeah, females notice the quickest of glances at her boobs. And most of them don't like that, especially if you're a total stranger. If you've actually noticed they do that, I suspect you look at that part of their body (if only to notice their reaction). Get it?
Thanks for not answering my actual questions, I won't really be able to give any further input. But given how you jumped at my throat I guess I have a bit of answer concerning the behaviour. Maybe you'll want to work on that?
>>5
I lol'd at your first part, really.
I have noticed the same thing too often, even from females who are good friends where there's never been any issue of my intentions or our relationship. I am offended when the female does this because I interpret it as if she's saying or thinking that I'm a creep. I am not looking or glancing at her boobs, and I am not saying anything forward or inappropriate. Most times there's nothing to look at really. I have come to the conclusion that it's not personal and that I must be giving off vibes that I think she is attractive and she is just trying to fend off any such thoughts of mine.
How close are you standing? you might be invading their personal space.
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