i hate my girlfriend's good friends (9)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2009-11-23 08:15 ID:fABRlwWs

as it says in the title.

my girlfriend's good friends totally piss me off.

thing is, we all know each other from the same classes just that my girlfriend started hanging out with them from before we got together so i can't totally ignore them.

sometimes they join us for dinner and their idiocy makes me moody and pissed off. there's this freakshow who tells jokes that bore the pants off me even before the punchline that's not funny, and who loves to boss everyone around and totally doesn't listen to anything anyone says - its her way or the highway. another one of them does nothing but watches tv shows non stop and idolises over the actors.

and they're not even hot.

i know its not fair to ask my girlfriend to stop hanging out with her friends - she wont agree anyway, but if this goes on i'm going to end up hitting someone/something.

2 Name: Anonymous : 2009-11-24 05:20 ID:Heaven

> freakshow...jokes that bore
> watches tv shows
> they're not even hot.

I'll give this to you straight because I think you can handle the truth:

You are a douchebag.

3 Name: Anonymous : 2009-11-24 12:36 ID:oK0+0wep

i said they're not even hot cos some joker here would've probably posted 'buttseckz with dem lol!'

4 Name: Anonymous : 2009-11-24 13:59 ID:Heaven

My aren't you a charmer. I think you'd be better off without a girlfriend and without friends, living in some dark hole somewhere, maybe then the company will be up to your expectations.

5 Name: Anonymous : 2009-11-24 14:48 ID:oK0+0wep

maybe you're right. i've always been better off alone.

whenever i get too close to people i always expect too much.

6 Name: Anonymous : 2009-11-25 01:41 ID:zGtI2/vq

just grow up and put up with it you are going to have to deal with people you don't like your whole life you might as well start now. having a girlfriend is better than being alone and if you really care you can put up with it if not maybe you should crawl into that hole the other posters have mentioned

7 Name: Anonymous : 2009-11-25 13:27 ID:fABRlwWs

yeah i have been dealing with people i don't like and stuff yeah but it's a different story when they're your girlfriend's best pals and you're forced to be happy and smiley around them everytime they join us for dinner or something.

and yes i know i'm a total dickhead for thinking like this cos' there's nothing really truly bad about those people. i just simply cannot get along with them, and they push all the wrong buttons on me. plain and simple.

8 Name: Anonymous : 2009-11-25 13:38 ID:fABRlwWs

to add on, just imagine this:

you go for dinner with your gf, on the way you run into her duo of friends, naturally they tag along.

you get your meal, sit down in a jolly group of 4 and they proceed to talk about their own 'in-topics' that i don't get and bore the hell out of me.

when we talk about common topics like school, one of them ALWAYS monopolises the conversation. when you try to disagree with her she shuts you down and it gets so awkward i've stopped disagreeing but just keep smiling and act like i'm interested in her stories.

the other one is in school just to get the piece of paper that's a degree and that's something that really clashes with what i believe in ie. that college is really about learning stuff you're passionate about. it's like a fundamental clash of values.

and this happens on a regular basis like say 2-3 times a week.

and tomorrow they're both heading to my gf's house for god knows how long.

9 Name: Anonymous : 2009-11-27 23:41 ID:Heaven


Really, I think you are being an insufferable prick.
Not one of them has done anything wrong or truly intolerable. You don't like one because she doesn't allow you talk as much as she does, and at the other just for trying to get a good job through college education. This is dinner you're going to, not a debate. You don't have to hold people in contempt because they have a trivial difference in opinion.

It may be a reasonable solution to explain to your girlfriend that you are an insufferable prick, and so you must excuse yourself from her company should her friends show up for dinner.

It's not like you don't deserve your girlfriend, it's just that you need to learn how to not be a prick.

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